maryale Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 Hi, yesturday was my first time with my boyfriend. I've done it before but it was the first time with my actual boyfriend. Anyway, we lasted like for 1 hour. I mean, I think I have a problem or what? I mean, I do get horny and turned on, but I've never felt an orgasm. For example, we lasted 1 hour in which he almost cummed 2 times but he controlled himself, because he wanted me to have an orgasm, too, but after one hour we were both really tired and he cummed, but I wasn't even close to. This had happen to me before with my exboyfriend, he used to cum really fast and I never felt an orgasm. I thought it was because of him, but I think it's my problem. After doing that, I felt satisfied but disappointed. I guess he expected more from me? We tried him on top of me, and he controlled himself for 2 times. He told me he wanted me to feel an orgasm, and to enjoy it, because he knows I've never felt one. So, he waited until I felt something, but I didn't. So, I told him that I could be on top for a while to see what happens. We changed position and I was on top, and instead he cummed, really fast. When we finished, I felt satisfied because I prefer giving than receiving and knowing that he cummed once and controlled himself 2 times, made me feel happy and satisfied. He insted felt bad, he told me he wanted me to feel something. He told me he liked it but that he failed his mission of making me have an orgasm. Is that really bad for a guy? I feel really bad. I know I shouldn't because it's not my fault, or is it? Neither his fault. I enjoyed every second of it. Maybe it's because he likes giving than recieving, too? Quote Link to comment
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