Question for the ladies.

[_Jaffa_]

What would you do or say if a guy you were getting close to had a lot of scars on his body? Would you find it repulsive? Would you try and make him talk about them?

[Newo Ikkin]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

 

Scars aren't something to be ashamed of - every one tells a story.

 

Its up to the holder whether they want to tell that story or not.

 

Scars are NOT repulsive.

[Honey Pumpkin]

Nope, scars wouldn't bother me at all. I would be interested, they are like a map of your life experience.

 

I actually like kissing my lover's scars - like kissing it better, and reassuring myself that he is all right. Silly really. But no, scars aren't repellent at all to me.

[puff.tm.dragon]

Scars are really cool. I try to get in fights so I can bruise myself.

[_Jaffa_]

Scars are really cool. I try to get in fights so I can bruise myself.

 

No offense....but that's fecking rediculous.

[anggrace]

I dont mind scars at all. I might ask where they came from out of curiosity, but if you didn't want to talk about it, that would be okay. If someone is turned off by them, they are probably pretty shallow.

[Newo Ikkin]

No offense....but that's fecking rediculous.

 

I'm glad someone else said it before I did.

[rocio]

I would want to know where they came from. I wouldn't be turned off by them though.

[_Jaffa_]

What if he didn't want to tell you where they came from?

[anggrace]

I guess Id feel a little bad that you thought I might judge you or think less of you if you told me, but I wouldn't push it it you didn't want to talk about it.

[rocio]

That would be his right. We all have a right to privacy. But in that case I would probably assume they were either self-inflicted or from physical abuse.

[CarnelianButterfly]

I don't mind his if he doesn't mind mine.

[pinkelephant]

well, it depends... if they're really ugly, i might just get repulsed by them. but most likely not, if im at the stage where im with them.. without clothes.. then i might just love it.

[yeawutever]

I would at first pretend I don't notice them but after a while if there's trust, I woudl then question him about it. I wouldn't mind if he didn't want to tell me about it right away, scars do have their stories.

[Baby Carrot]

Depends on the scars.

 

Extreme disfiguring scars scare the crap out of most people (I'm not saying this is right or nice, but that's the way it is).

 

Of course I would wonder and try to determine by observation what kind of scars are they. If I found the guy attractive since the beginning, no, they would not be repulsive.

 

And yeah, at some point I would ask him what happened. Is not something you can easily ignore, like tattooes or piercings.

[yeawutever]

True if they're so extremely severe scars, then off course anyone would repulsed by them. But than than likely they're moderate to not so hideous scars. Either way at some point you have to ask. Now I'm sure everyone one of us has a scar.

[in_the_mirror]

they wouldn't bother me but i would be curious about them....and actually my b/f has a few, and i think it enhances a body. it reminds us how vulnerable we are, and for some reason its kind of a turn on.... i don't think anyone should be ashamed of their scars, and no one should show repulsion. cuz if they do its cuz they think they are invincible, and that bothers me more then anything lol....(sorry i went off a little more then the original question)

[_Jaffa_]

see, it's never been a problem because normally i'm too wasted to care and just go with the flow and plus the people I end up with kind of know about them anyway and are too wasted to properly notice but i worry about when or if it comes to being with someone properly like in a proper relationship.

[Clementine orange]

“Children show scars like medals. Lovers use them as secrets to reveal. A scar is what happens when the word is made flesh.” L. Cohen

[lolalolaray]

If a guy had a lot of scars on his body I would be curious about them but not repulsed by them. I'd be a bit worried if they were self-inflicted though. I know it's cliched but it's not really what's on the outside that is attractive but rather the personality, how kind and how funny someone is (for me personally, may be different for others). Don't get too stressed about it all though, chemistry is also important too though I have yet to figure that one out.

[Momene]

Masochoist: "Come on! Hit me! Hit me"

 

Sadist: "NO!!!"

[Clementine orange]

Masochoist: "Come on! Hit me! Hit me"

 

Sadist: "NO!!!"

 

LOL

 

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[JulieW]

Turned off no. Interested yes.

 

I have several scars ranging from surgery to serious and they all have a story. I don't show them off but I am not remotely ashamed.