SamT Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Sam.........what's going on? lol, not sure woke up pretty read my other thread if you could...? Link to comment
honeyspur Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 I got your back Sam - everything will be ok one day I promise Congrats to Crows on day 17!!! How fantastic! I'm impressed you are getting out there and dating. You are practicing and that's great. I'm not surprised you have a confusing girl right now - you are also in a state of unease and confusion, so you attracted that to you. Try not to judge and try to keep those eyes wide open. Be ready to not date at any time because it's just a healthy way to go. It's great to see you come so far.... Link to comment
GetMeBack Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 DAY 16 WOOHOO!! Well DAY 17 APPROACHING SLOWLY BUT SURELY I really cant believe I have found the strength to do this.. I have had days where I cry myself to sleep, like last night. But I would rather poke my eye out then call him. I have found that this NC is giving me some self - respect. I dont want to be giving someone FREE love, who clearly is not reciprocating those feelings. He is still on my MSN but blocked and I see him sign in and out . He will probably be blocked for another couple of months at least too. I miss the closeness of a relationship and that fuzzy feeling you get when you see them. But I dont miss him specifically. He never had anything to offer me. He never bought me flowers, in fact he never bought me anything. I am proud of myself that I am getting there and I am keeping faith that I will find someone one day that will cherish me, my hopes, my dreams and will love me truly. Link to comment
honeyspur Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 I miss the closeness of a relationship and that fuzzy feeling you get when you see them. But I dont miss him specifically. . Wow - you've turned a corner, hon!! This is a great and progressive sign. It's exactly how I felt before I got really involved in school and fitness, which allowed me to let go completely. Good work and congrats on day 16!!!! Link to comment
GetMeBack Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Thanks honey spur. I feel myself getting there.. I look forward to doing small things alone like watching a film Or Indulging in a chocolate milkshake like I did yesterday.. I guess I am GETTINGMEBACK. haha Link to comment
LilBear Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Day 44! 16 days short of my 60 days target. You're doing so good Monique! You should be proud of yourself. Link to comment
Irish Jax Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Halfway there!!! Day 15 I am alot calmer and more rational now that it is fifteen days later. He is on my mind though. I do not miss the stress, but the same as a few posts above in that I miss the closeness. I treated him like gold and know he had nothing to complain about. When I look back, I realize he was the problem and an idiot for not seeing what was right in front of him. I might do sixty days like you Lil Bear. Link to comment
GetMeBack Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Yeah I am going to 60 days too..maybe even forever.. Link to comment
messenger05 Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Its good to hear people are doing so well... As for me, I'm on day 3 of NC and i'm still struggling. I can't stop myself from thinking about her even during my daily routine. I can't let go of this hope that we are going to get back together because she said she hoped it would happen right before we started our no contact. Going through my daily routine is getting a little easier although far from easy. I have my ups and downs throughout the day so I'm hoping the ups keep out numbering the lows. Am I ok to be thinking that I still want to get back together because I really feel like she does to... she just wanted some space to figure things out. Ahhhhhh ... just venting... thanks for listening! Link to comment
Sickboy48 Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 I just completed 90 days of NC this past weekend and I feel great. It was hard at first as you all know but it does get easier. Now I have a great new job at EA games, i look good, i go out, and the ladies are hitting on me once again, oh yeah! I wish you all the best. I'm now going for 120 days lol. Link to comment
GetMeBack Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 I just completed 90 days of NC this past weekend and I feel great. It was hard at first as you all know but it does get easier. Now I have a great new job at EA games, i look good, i go out, and the ladies are hitting on me once again, oh yeah! I wish you all the best. I'm now going for 120 days lol. WOW sickboy well done. What job have you got with EA GAMES. If you say the sims, I am going to hunt you down man! lol. x Link to comment
Sickboy48 Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 WOW sickboy well done. What job have you got with EA GAMES. If you say the sims, I am going to hunt you down man! lol. x I am working on a game called Spore. it's from Will Wright, the guy who created Sims. It takes you from the evolution of life, through different phases afterwards. You main goal is to get into outerspace. i can;t say much more then that or i'll get in trouble lol. link removed. Check it out. Don't hurt me too bad, not the face!! lol Link to comment
GetMeBack Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 I am working on a game called Spore. it's from Will Wright, the guy who created Sims. It takes you from the evolution of life, through different phases afterwards. You main goal is to get into outerspace. i can;t say much more then that or i'll get in trouble lol. link removed. Check it out. Don't hurt me too bad, not the face!! lol Haha , that game sounds cool! I love the sims soooooooooooo much. I just make them fall in love and have sex all day! Sigh...If life could really be like that...or maybe it could? lol..I wont hurt you mr! x Link to comment
Sickboy48 Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Haha , that game sounds cool! I love the sims soooooooooooo much. I just make them fall in love and have sex all day! Sigh...If life could really be like that...or maybe it could? lol..I wont hurt you mr! x It should be a great load of fun, I just hope we can get out by Sept. hard work making games, i doubt peeps have any idea of what it takes. lol. yeah that sounds good to me, some hot tub action. Link to comment
GetMeBack Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 It should be a great load of fun, I just hope we can get out by Sept. hard work making games, i doubt peeps have any idea of what it takes. lol. yeah that sounds good to me, some hot tub action. Yeah some hot tub woohoo in sims language haha! Link to comment
Mock Chop Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Three emails from the ex this evening. Hmm. One line response from me. Link to comment
SamT Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Hmm well coming to the end of Day 1.... Feel alright... listening to music really loud distracted me and got me into a good mood... also distracted me from revising though lol Will be playing a lot of online poker too haha Hmm i feel okay... but i hope shes okay with all of this... i dont want her to hate me... Link to comment
lexion Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 day 2 i ended up feeling depressed and almost called her yesterday the more i think about this, the more i can't see her going back to me why does my heart feel emoty in the morning? it's as if there's a void in my chest, literally it felt literally empty Link to comment
Mock Chop Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 And a fourth email from him. And another one line reply sent. Link to comment
LilBear Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Hmm well coming to the end of Day 1.... Feel alright... listening to music really loud distracted me and got me into a good mood... also distracted me from revising though lol Will be playing a lot of online poker too haha Hmm i feel okay... but i hope shes okay with all of this... i dont want her to hate me... Being in this NC stuff for this long, I wonder if my ex thinks I hate him Link to comment
SamT Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Being in this NC stuff for this long, I wonder if my ex thinks I hate him Well she just said to me on msn "i know you dont want to talk, but im just letting you know - i understand, i was being selfish, im so sorry" I replied with a thanks, and i love you - and she gave a Man i do miss her though.... LilBear i doubt ur ex hates you ... no one can hate that much after a while i dont think... plus ur ex must understand why u need the NC? Link to comment
CreoUCLA Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 I wonder if my ex thinks I hate him He doesn't matter. Hope you're doing well... It's been a while since we've talked. -Mike- Link to comment
Crows Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 Day 18... i have her unblocked and looking at her name online.. I have no urge to talk to her, nor does it affect me at all. Link to comment
AngryHeart Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 Well, it's day 3 technocly. Feeling good about it just now. Had a reallly good night with friends, and made a pact I will see them more and have more fun. Yeah, I miss him, but I think if I can keep NC up I will be OK and heal faster. Link to comment
lexion Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 day 2 i'm listing stuff that i won't miss from her and this makes me not wanting to go back with her Link to comment
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