VeganBohemian Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 My boyfriend said to me that one of my Christmas gifts is very very major and important...and is about "how much he loves me". He also said it is one of a kind. What could it be? Do you think it is a promise ring? He told me to prepare and brace myself because of the majorness of the gift. What do you think? Link to comment
robowarrior Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 hehehe surprise surprise ^_^ Link to comment
xmrth Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 hmmm, maybe a promise ring because he's telling you about it, but it could still be an engagement ring! He might have plans for whatever particular night and want it to be perfect and so that you don't make other plans or something. Or he may have NO idea you'd know it's a promise ring or an engagement ring so he's letting you know it's that important. But whatever it is, it's important and it's a big deal! Don't be upset if it's not a ring!!! Because just in case it's not, it's still obviously very important and he's got it in him to express how he feels about you like this. But I would still be dreaming about if it's a ring, haha. I think it's fun he's getting you excited about it. Link to comment
soccer14 Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 Well whatever it is keep us posted! Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 I would expect it NOT to be an engagement ring, because if it's say, a holiday or a puppy or something, you might look disappointed. It does SOUND like that what he's getting at, but put it out of your mind just in case! Link to comment
nomoretears4uboo Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 Maybe, it's something you've mention you've always wanted to do or wanted to have. And he's taking you to do that or getting you that item. But, hopefully it will be what you want.If it's not just still be happy and don't give him a sad face because, that will make him feel like you're not happy with whatever it is hes given you even if its not what you thought it would be. But, good luck!! =) Link to comment
annie24 Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 i'm thinking .... plasma TV. ok, I wouldn't assume that it will be a ring because if it isn't you will be disappointed. maybe it is a trip to the country, which would be nice also. Link to comment
Aurian Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 Don't get too hung up on one thing, since his hints are pretty vague. Keep your mind open so you're surprised if its something else! Link to comment
RayKay Posted December 18, 2006 Share Posted December 18, 2006 Ooh ooh...I am going with a macaroni necklace! I have no idea, could be anything......I learned long ago people can sometimes have some odd hints for presents that often seem quite unrelated to it when you actually see it! I also know when it comes to proposals, people tend (at least those I know whom have gotten engaged) to like to make it a surprise - even if they have talked about it and the marriage and all that; they like the actual proposal to be a surprise so not sure HINTING about something like that would be common...though maybe....! Could be a promise ring though; though I have to admit I still don't really get what those are all about....not common thing when I was in that younger dating age...and if my boyfriend gave me a promise ring now...well, I would not be impressed by that at this point in our relationship Link to comment
rikka Posted December 19, 2006 Share Posted December 19, 2006 I would expect it NOT to be an engagement ring, because if it's say, a holiday or a puppy or something, you might look disappointed. It does SOUND like that what he's getting at, but put it out of your mind just in case! I was going to say "It's a puppy!". No, seriously, you have gotten some good advice in this thread. Don't dwell on what it could be/what you want it to be, just in case it is something unexpected or disappointing. Link to comment
VeganBohemian Posted December 24, 2006 Author Share Posted December 24, 2006 He did get me a "promise ring"...it is a beautiful blue topaz white gold and silver ring with diamond chips all around the stone. It is soo pretty! When he gave it to me though...he didn't directly mention marriage. He said he promises to love me forever and stuff like that. However, he did say he wanted to get me an engagement ring, but thought it would be inappropriate since we are so young (20 + 22)...and he doesn't have that much money. It was very sweet...but the fact that he never promised to marry me kind of defeated the purpose. He did however keep mentioning he wants to live with me. ?? Link to comment
annie24 Posted December 24, 2006 Share Posted December 24, 2006 well, a promise to marry is an engagement ring. anyways, just be happy! you are young, there is no need to jump the gun, no need to hurry, you know what I mean? just enjoy the relationship, get to know him better, and if things keep going well and you like being with him, the engagement ring will come in time. good luck! Link to comment
Aurian Posted December 27, 2006 Share Posted December 27, 2006 He did say he wanted an engagement ring so that is on his mind, hey? The promise ring sounds lovely. definitely sounds like he put some thought into it! I also think its a wonderful gesture to say that he feels committed and in love with you. As for receiving more... well, I agree with Annie! Link to comment
Joneysnai Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Just wait for it. If you dwell on it and it isn't what you expected you will get disappointed. If you just let it be it will be even a bigger surprise when you get it. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted January 19, 2007 Share Posted January 19, 2007 Well good luck with it, shows he cares about you!!!!! Link to comment
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