The Male Orgasm

[agent1607307371]

Ho-key.

 

I admit, that as much as I like gettin my partners off, I've never actually considered that men could have orgasms that felt 'different'. Mainly because I was too concerned with my own , but in the interest of education I was wondering if some of the men on here could tell me what different kinds of sensation they experience at orgasm?

 

This was mentioned ever so briefly in passing on another thread and it's gone and got me all curious.

 

- Helen.

[MagicToilet]

For me it can be 2 kinds of orgasms.. When I get the feel of an oncoming orgasm within about 15min it is always a great sensation when it happens. And for me it always takes at least that long before I feel anything building up.. But when it takes 45+ min it is often like blowing up a baloon, and then letting the air out of it quickly again.. The only thing I feel is that I lose the pressure that was built up..

 

One thing I wish I knew is how female orgasm felt.. I wonder if it is kinda the same thing as a male orgasm or something entirely different..

[sixpounder]

im sure it feels as good as the female orgasm, but easier to obtain

[Cardinal]

im sure it feels as good as the female orgasm, but easier to obtain

 

I am convinced that given a rabbit or bullet, many can get off just as fast an easily as we can!

[Cardinal]

For me, the orgasms that happen faster are usually less satisfying. The sensations don't last as long and they aren't as intense. Hence why I like to stimulate for at least 10-15 minutes before finishing. A little more info for you

 

1) A deepthroat bj feels more like the orgasm is literally being milked or drawn out. A lot of suction can just draw an orgasm right out. BJ orgasms obviously give a different mental feel, probably one of the best mental sensations a man can have. Complete loss of control.

 

2) The larger the load, the better the feeling at orgasm. Usually I have only a few teaspoons to give, but when I actually wait and let it build up for a few days that feeling of getting rid of it all adds waves of pleasure. Apparently staying well hydrated and waiting is a key to this. Peter North must have the best orgasms in the world.

 

3) A combination prostate and regular orgasm is definitely the most intense orgasm possible physically for a man. They last longer. The muscular contractions (butt grabs whatever the heck it is doing the stimulating and forcibly pulsates) send shock waves of pleasure and a very powerful chill and shaking feeling through the whole body. I don' t doubt it is every bit as powerful as any gspot orgasm on a woman. We just don't scream as much.

 

4) Sometimes I can send mild chills through my body that feel really good and relaxing during/after a normal orgasm. Very satisfying. I can only do that about 1/3 or 1/4 of the time maybe and I can't control it that well. It is usually round 2 that gives these.

 

5) Multiple orgasms for me are very obtainable but also not super satisfying. I get modest and toned down waves of pleasure with a tiny bit of cum, then I can stay hard. But it is literally stopping mid stroke and not satisfying for me 'yet'.

 

6) I find orgasms through sex are the easist to build up to and back off from. I can stay hard for an hour or more having sex sans orgasm and can get close many times if I want. The longevity of it and the fact that I can look in her eyes as I finish is what makes these orgasms great.

 

7) Grabbing the balls at orgasm (or constricting them somehow) seems to lead to a bit better/longer orgasm for me. This is also a great feeling of vulnerability and loss of control. I am not very sensitive down there so I can take a lot of experimenting. To a point, the more pressure etc. the more unique the feeling at orgasm. It is just adding a new dimension by using these.

 

I hope this was the kind of response you were looking for...

[Dako]

I wonder how candid I should be....

 

Well, I once had a spontaneuous orgasm walking in a department store.

I wasn't thinking of anything even slightly sexual and Bam! I had to hit the restroom to tidy up. I shuddered and groaned. No way was that like a big Holy Crow blast after holding back during a night of bizarre play. That sort of thing feels like a brain explosion followed by a lack of motor control. There's a full range in between, IIRC.

[unface]

I wonder how candid I should be....

 

Well, I once had a spontaneuous orgasm walking in a department store.

I wasn't thinking of anything even slightly sexual and Bam! I had to hit the restroom to tidy up. I shuddered and groaned. No way was that like a big Holy Crow blast after holding back during a night of bizarre play. That sort of thing feels like a brain explosion followed by a lack of motor control. There's a full range in between, IIRC.

 

That would scare the hell out of me

[Mr.Mister]

There are actually a few different feeling orgasms I've experienced. Most of them I just discovered them trying different things on my own. First is just the normal orgasm most every guy has. Through sex or masturbation, it's just a full out orgasm that is fairly mechanical. Just pump it enough times and it explodes with pleasure.

 

I've also discovered I can orgasm by simply rubbing a spot on the back of the penis near the head, but not touching the head. It requires me to concentrate on orgasm a bit more, but it feels really good. It feels different bringing myself to orgasm like this, but I don't really know how to describe it. You can also use a vibrator or something like that to massage that spot and it works too.

 

And, lastly, I've brought myself to orgasm before without touching the head at all. This is hard to do, but if I get extremely horny (normally while watching porn or something), I can just rub the shaft until I can't take it anymore. It's a little more intense than just a normal orgasm, but the build up to it isn't as good, because most of the feeling for a guy is in the head of his penis.

[doyathink]

Ok, I just have to tell this...man, I hope the s/o isn't reading my posts..

 

He told me that one time he was playing basketball and he had on silk boxers...lol....anyway (sorry honny) he said that after about 10 minutes of it rubbing on the silk he couldn't stand it anymore and had to go sit down before he exploded in front of all the guys!

 

(dont tell him I told you that)

[sparkle1]

This is a really interesting thread....cheers for starting it!

 

I've often wondered how it feels for a man!! I mean some men can cum without much of a gasp let alone moan and others really yell....!

 

I would love (just for a couple of hours) be a man to experience this stuff!

[sinas777]

Dako, It's okay. You can share, lol

 

doyathink- LOL That's funny

 

The head of the penis is the exact same as a womans clit. I learned in my Human Anatomy class. There are other similarities that I won't get into b/c it will probably gross the men out like it did my bf.

 

Men get better orgasms because their version of the clit (the head) is constantly being stimulated. Talk about intense! Ours is only stimulated some of the time, which is why most women prefer oral sex! I prefer vaginal, b/c I only get Gspot orgasms during vaginal sex and once I get one, it never stops and keeps getting more intense till I can't take it anymore. It's pretty great...

[agent1607307371]

True. Except women have more nerve endings there. Ho ho ho

 

Cardinal - I have no doubt on the prostate orgasm. I used to love giving them to my ex, and the first time it took about 15 minutes before he could speak again. I thought I'd given him brain damage!

[I_KicKed_keNNedy]

I get much better orgasms after I've been exercising. I will go out for a run than a couple hours later I'll have sex or masturbate for a while.

 

Just before climax, I'll get this tingle in my head and I'll know its going to be intense.

 

I also find I disagree with another poster. I find the longer I go without coming, the more intense it is. One time over the summer, my GF and I had gone for at least an hour (we missed C.S.I.) and when I let loose it was so intense I started shivering. That was also when I was a vegetarian. Dunno if that had something to do with it.

 

Also, since I've been practising continence (only coming 1 or 2 times a week, and not everytime I have sex/masturbate) I've found the orgasms have been much more intense as well.

[Day_Walker]

I would say that there are different feelings as far as what is being performed but I wouldnt say that there are different types or orgasms, I would say that it is all the stimulus.

[BellaDonna]

I'm not a man, but there are definitely varying degress of intensity in a male orgasm.

 

Some men are capable of the equivalent of "multiple orgasms", but it takes a really good mind-body connection and the right stimulation. link removed

 

BellaDonna

[need2bme]

True. Except women have more nerve endings there. Ho ho ho

 

Cardinal - I have no doubt on the prostate orgasm. I used to love giving them to my ex, and the first time it took about 15 minutes before he could speak again. I thought I'd given him brain damage!

 

I was reading this at work and thought I was going to fall right out of my chair. OMG that was funny! Don't know if I ever want to experience it.

[Agathon]

Simple rules, don't masterbate too often and try to not ejaculate for as long as possible. That always gives an intense one...

 

Ok. and try not to freak out... but I've found a 'different' one. I don't even need an erection.

 

If I rub up against a corner or a pole or rope (I have to be hanging from it), while trying to climb it, I get a building sensation and I explode in a matter of seconds. It even hurts slightly... mainly cause Im rubbing something into the left part of my crotch.

 

Just thought I'd share.

[New_Horizons]

The best orgasms are those that occur after a period of waiting (48 hours for me), intense visual stimulation (the P word for those who don't have a girlfriend), and only light hand-to-penis contact while the orgasm builds. After a series of 3-5 erections, I'm ready to go. I know it's good when I feel it all the way down in my testicles. When I orgasm, my mouth gapes, my eyes pop out, my tongue lolls and I gasp like a dying dog.

[need2bme]

I know it's good when I feel it all the way down in my testicles. When I orgasm, my mouth gapes, my eyes pop out, my tongue lolls and I gasp like a dying dog.

 

ROTFLMAO!!! Yeah I know, but thanks, I so needed that!!!

[need2bme]

OK, so maybe a little OT, but what about all the advice that states to masturbate, before making love?

[SonambulatingSpecialist]

From what i've read of most clinical definitions of male orgasm , you'd never know any sensations are involved at all, most being focused on the obvious the physical processes involved. The sexual community online seems to have a confused definition of orgasm and ejaculation and many believe that both are synonymous and physically inseperable. I don't think this is true. It's quite possible for us to EJ without the O, and also possible to O without the EJ... if you follow me. Most of the time it's a combination of the two. I think females do this too, but being male means being "rigged" for relatively easy EJ. O can be just as elusive for men as it is ( and has been rather well publicized) for women.

EJ feels like it is; a series of physical contractions and emissions, sharp but not lasting.

Orgasm seems to much more emotionally fullfilling, probably involves a more advanced part of the brain or a different/ larger part of the nervous system... it's just broader, better, more encompassing. It might involve rapid breathing, clenching, tingling sensations, vasocongestion ( reddening) in the upper body ect, leading up to the climactic moment. Who's really is aware of what's happening then or thereafter hmmm?

So, I don't personally believe that volume of ejaculate really improves the subjective outcome ( not a pun!) of male climax. I believe the pleasure, in that case, is taken as pride-of-performance.

A man's glans and a female's clitoris are largely homologous, or the same. Somone pointed out that the clitoris has more nerve endings. I've heard that, because of it's size vs the glans, the nerve endings are simply more concentrated, and produce similar sensations. For us, stimulating the glans (head) leads to a orgasmic response, and on the ventral (underside) stimulating the frenum is more likely to induce EJ. Wish all the women's and men's mags out there would pick up on this.

Sorry I just realized how dry and clinical this post is. That's the influence of textbooks i'm afraid. Thanks for reading!

[Dako]

Your textbook observations agree with my (somewhat obsolete) field notes. I've had the EJ and O separately and the O is the part I favor, IIRC. Some guys almost get angry dismissing these phemomena. Poor devils.

When my nipples are stimulated, the roof of my mouth becomes almost unbearably ticklish.

TMI?

[DDRFreak]

I've often wondered how it feels for a man!! I mean some men can cum without much of a gasp let alone moan and others really yell....!

 

 

For me it can go either way, I can have totally silent orgasms. But on the flip-side there are times where i am so horny that i let go and make all sorts of sounds it seems like... Like whenever i really let go and make noise it's so much better!

[itsthatguy]

i can't believe no one mentioned when both have an orgasm at the same time

 

oh my

 

blushes

 

There arn't too many (if any!) feelings in the world better than that! I love it when me and my girlfriend are both having an orgasm at the same time, the way her muscles feel contracting all around me give me an even more intense orgasm than if it was just me having an orgasm right after she finished.