charley Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 My s.o. used to call me babe. I loved it at first, but after awhile I was like, "STOP SAYING IT ALREADY! GOD!" He also calls me darlin', hunnay (yes with the 'ay' ), hun, etc.. I don't mind when men refer to women as chicks. It's just a word. No big deal. I don't mind babe either, it just gets annoying after too much repitition, lol. That's exactly why I like to be creative and have a repatoire to draw from. I can use a different one every time and that can go on for a long time before I repeat. Variety and newness are fun and exciting, I think. Originality is also nice. Link to comment
HurleyBabe6917 Posted January 9, 2007 Author Share Posted January 9, 2007 Yeah, saying the same thing over and over can get a little old. Variety is key to keeping it fun. Link to comment
littlemsred Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 I don't mind when men refer to women as chicks. It's just a word. No big deal. It's just a word? No big deal? Just because it's "just a word" doesn't mean it isn't offensive. There are many highly offensive words, such as racist and sexist terms, that are "a big deal" whether you personally think Chick is one of them or not. Link to comment
bigheart09 Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 My bf calls me the usual sweet names, which i love, but he always comes up with funny ones now and again. His new one is chubalubagous. Link to comment
Dako Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 I only use "chick" ironically, but lately, I had occasion to lapse into "puppy" a bit. Mmmm. Link to comment
mike_chppr Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 OK, well I'd love to be called "My Kitten Licker" but I suppose you have to be in a relationship for a while. Also you need an alternative for public places. I like muffin I haven't thought of that one. I've kind of stuck to babe and hotstuff and sexmachine and sexy, wife-ey. Honey-muffin might be good, smoothalicious, waxer would be good, but also more personal. I can't think of an interrim one that I would like to be called, until I earn the above mentioned nickname. Link to comment
TheRedQueen Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 OK, well I'd love to be called "My Kitten Licker". Wow, I'm totally stealing this!!! Link to comment
Kevin T Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 The next girl I end with is going to be called: Sweet Thang!! lol Link to comment
Intimacy Challenged Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 Nobody has posted here for a month, so I might be wasting my time, but I'll try anyway. I have a major problem with intimacy (relational, not sexual) that I'm working on in counseling. A strange part is that I'm very uncomfortable with names (I guess names are too intimate). I'm uncomfortable calling people by their names or being called by my name, especially in close relationships like with my wife and step-son. What's many times worse, though, is "pet" names, endearing terms, etc. They feel very foolish to me. I call my wife "dear" most of the time. So, my assignment from my counselor is to come up with a pet name for my wife and start using it. This is like telling me to drop a phobia cold-turkey, but that's my assignment. I've read all the names you've posted and haven't found any that I'm comfortable with. Any suggestions (especially from the ladies)? - Something simple and "safe" to start out with; nothing sexual or sappy. She's a country girl at heart - maybe that helps. Link to comment
HarleyHunny Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 My ex boyfriend of many years called me "doll" I loved it....I thought it in a way classy yet very much like an old gangster or mob movie....Now the ex hubby of many, many years ago called me baby dumplins! I hated it! Thinking about it now reminds of the Seinfeld episode of them calling each other "smoopy, woopy" ewwww...... Link to comment
Aurian Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 I like personalized nicknames. If she's a country girl, I dunno... Hayseed? Dolly? Peaches and Cream? Link to comment
charley Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 I like personalized nicknames. If she's a country girl, I dunno... Hayseed? Dolly? Peaches and Cream? Hayseed? Isn't that a classic insult to country people? I dunno about that one. Peaches might be good. Link to comment
Aurian Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 It depends on her sense of humour, of course. My nick (from almost everyone) is Dragon Lady, which is usually an insult, but I like it Link to comment
charley Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 Dragon Lady? You? You're a sweetie. Link to comment
Aurian Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 Maybe so, but I'm a sweetie who is a dragon nut (Just look at my avatars!) Link to comment
HurleyBabe6917 Posted February 5, 2007 Author Share Posted February 5, 2007 I get called Killer by a lot of people. Often being told "Easy there, Killer." Link to comment
charley Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 I get called Killer by a lot of people. Often being told "Easy there, Killer." Killer? But you're so sweet and petite. It must be ironic humor. Link to comment
HurleyBabe6917 Posted February 5, 2007 Author Share Posted February 5, 2007 Killer? But you're so sweet and petite. It must be ironic humor. Sweet? Haha. I am not sweet. I'm a little package of dynamite. Haha. Link to comment
charley Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 Sweet? Haha. I am not sweet. I'm a little package of dynamite. Haha. You're reminding me of my favorite cat, Meowly. She was 8 lbs of dynamite. She was all cuddly to me, but she liked to fight other cats. Her hobby was attacking and beating the daylights out of my sister's 15 lbs wussy cat. My parents were always taking my sister's cat to the vet to get sewed up. But Meowly was sweet to me. So I still think of her as a sweet cat, though in realilty she was sweet dynamite. The only time she ever scratched me was if I didn't pet her enough. Then she'd slowly start sinking a claw into me and slowly keep pushing it in deeper, until I resumed petting her. What a cat. Hmmm. Sweet dynamite = Sweetamite Link to comment
charley Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 For a naughty, but nice lady: "Sweettart". Link to comment
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