Luke Skywalker Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 To everyone who has had sex or any type of sexual intimacy, would you say that it is a disgusting experience? I've heard from one guy that his experience of losing his virginity to a hooker at age 20 was disgusting. Another guy on this board, claims that his experience of losing his virginity to a stranger he meet online at age 25 was disgusting. In other words, people having casual sex with random strangers appears to be disgusting based on these two sources (but I've also heard some positives elsewhere - such as breaking the virginity barrier has led to an aura where they were able to more easily get other girls, etc....) So, let's here it - in your experience, is it disgusting or not? Link to comment
leo_s84 Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Well..personally i lost my virginity 6 years ago to a random girl i met at the time. Wouldnt say it was disgusting, but i've had a lot better after that. Especially if you love the person you're doing it with. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Hookers _are_ kinda disgusting if you think about it, so is sex with someone you don't really like (mercy or revenge sex). If beforehand you suspect you might regret a sex experience then for sure afterwards you will! Link to comment
southerngirl Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Sex is not disgusting to me. I think sex with a stranger could disgust me. Link to comment
rose2summer Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 I think sex is the most beautiful experience in life, there is nothing more special for me. Then again, my few experiences have been with long-time boyfriends. My ex had been with a hooker too and he said it was a terrible experience for him. I guess it depends on the emotions involved, I think when people say it's disgusting is because they had hoped to have had it with someone they care about, not a random person or paid individual. Hugs, Rose Link to comment
vermilion Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 I guess if you really think about it- the bodily fluids like sweat, lubricant, semen, possibly urine and blood....it really IS gross. But I don't consider any if it gross for some reason. It sounds like those other people's experiences were disgusting because they were having sex with people who they didn't care about. I mean, I can't see myself enjoying it if I don't know the person or am even possibly paying for it. I think most would never do it with a prostitute. A lot of people can have sex with strangers and feel fine about it- but I think most would prefer it to be with someone they care about and who care about you in return. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Hey "prettyview" I just had a giggle moment. Dogs have sex with other dogs they just met all the time. I have a dog - he'll hump anything, short term, long term, whatever. Actually doesnt have to be another dog either. (I'm referring to your sign off line - not Belinda Stonich and Peter Mackay) Link to comment
Kevin T Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 I guess if you really think about it- the bodily fluids like sweat, lubricant, semen, possibly urine and blood....it really IS gross. How gnostic. Link to comment
vermilion Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 How gnostic. Hmmm... don't know what that word means. Oh well, hope it's nothing mean. I'm just being honest! Link to comment
yeawutever Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 I would say it depends with who you do it with. If I were to have sex with a random guy I just met, then yes that woudl be freaky, soo disgusting. Howver, if it was sex with a b/f you been for soo long and there's trust, along with bonding, then that must be a good experience. Yet, still not ready to lost my virginity. Link to comment
quietgrl Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 I guess the bottom line is virgin out there and What i'm reading from nonvirgins is sex with strangers/one night stand/booty calls are not fulfulling but sex in a LT relationship is fulfulling. Link to comment
soccer14 Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Well I just lost my virginity. I wouldnt say it was gross. But it was kinda weird. But i've been dating this guy for like 3 months now so I felt pretty confident wiht him. Link to comment
Dako Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Put me in the not disgusted category. I once had a crummy experience, but it wasn't about the sex, it was about her. Link to comment
New_Horizons Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 (but I've also heard some positives elsewhere - such as breaking the virginity barrier has led to an aura where they were able to more easily get other girls, etc....) They are not mutually exclusive. I totally agree that losing my virginity will help me get more girls. At the same time, psychologically, the thought of having sex with someone I don't love is disgusting. Still, I would do it so that I manage to attract someone in the future who I can love. Sort of like a bitter pill. Link to comment
justpaisley Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Sex in and of itself is not disgusting. Sex for the wrong reasons, whatever the wrong reasons are to you, is disgusting. Link to comment
Luke Skywalker Posted October 30, 2006 Author Share Posted October 30, 2006 So, what makes something 'disgusting'? What makes it noxious? What makes it pleasurable? I mean, sex technically is just a penis inserted in a vagina and going back and forth isn't it? How can that be disgusting or not? Do body fluids smell sweet in general with another person? Could the smell be disgusting? What would be disgusting specifically? Link to comment
Dako Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Luke, You're such a romantic. If it's so bad, why has it stayed in Letterman's Top Ten List of Things to Seek for the past 20 centuries? Link to comment
lman69 Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 To everyone who has had sex or any type of sexual intimacy, would you say that it is a disgusting experience? I've heard from one guy that his experience of losing his virginity to a hooker at age 20 was disgusting. Another guy on this board, claims that his experience of losing his virginity to a stranger he meet online at age 25 was disgusting. In other words, people having casual sex with random strangers appears to be disgusting based on these two sources (but I've also heard some positives elsewhere - such as breaking the virginity barrier has led to an aura where they were able to more easily get other girls, etc....) So, let's here it - in your experience, is it disgusting or not? No, sex isn't disguisting, it is a lil hard to figure out when I first did it, but it soons become easier and more fun. Link to comment
Entomon Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 It is when you find out that his key has been alternating between door locks. Link to comment
Dako Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 or the lock accepts different keys. Link to comment
PaulvonMunich Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Will we all be on earth, writing this here... if Adam & Eve did not find it worth doing IT? Link to comment
Daddy Bear Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 sex is one of the most awesome things in the world, under the right circumstances. i don't think that those circumstances include losing your virginity to a hooker, adultery, or sex outside of the law... these are poison to the soul and should be avoided at all times. otherwise, any smells or tastes will likely be associated with a positive experience and the brain will welcome them. mine does, anyway. Link to comment
Anna. Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Sex in and of itself is not disgusting. Sex for the wrong reasons, whatever the wrong reasons are to you, is disgusting. I completely agree. Link to comment
TheRedQueen Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 What an interesting question, sometimes sex seems silly and, or "dirty" to me, like two sweaty, stinky monkeys having sweaty, stinky monkey-sex. Link to comment
InaneCathode Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 I think sex is the most beautiful experience in life, there is nothing more special for me. Ditto..... Link to comment
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