PLC Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 I can let my bf go down on me but I really don't like to go down on him for blow job. He likes it but I don't feel comfortable. Is it normal to be like that? What should I do? Link to comment
ButterflyWrists Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 Just tell him your not compfortable doing it, and if he's a nice guy then he'll respect that. And yes it is normal, I hate give a BJ Link to comment
NKP Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 Yes it is normal, you will be surpised how many girls dont like giving blow job to there guy. Most girls dont like it but just do it to please there man Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 I love my boyfriend and his body, so I have no problems whatsoever with it. But that's just my point of view, and you shouldn't do anything you do not feel comfortable with. Link to comment
johnagent1911 Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 most of the time it's the younger girls that say something along these lines... Link to comment
bebecole Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 just wait until it feels right, at first i never liked doing that but it doesnt bother me anymore. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 Its perfectly normal.. to me personally I hate it but because I love my bf I use it as his *special treat* that he only gets every once in awhile and even though I dislike it and dont get any pleasure whatsoever from it but because I love him and he likes it I inturn get pleasure out of knowing I can please him. Link to comment
Tigris Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 I used to do it to my husbands because I wanted oral sex from them. I don't have that problem anymore because I'm engaged to a wonderful woman. Link to comment
Cardinal Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 Defintiely normal. Wait until it feels right. I would just say to take time and show him you do care enough to make sure he is satisfied. Find other ways that he loves for you to get him off for now (handjobs for instance). Just make sure you are willing to pay attention to that area in a meaningful way. He will be more likely to be satisfied. Link to comment
joiseygrl Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 Ok... so this may seem like a personal question, but look at the topic... May I ask why you're not comfortable doing it? Is it a physical or mental thing? Link to comment
New_Horizons Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 I would hate to *get* a BJ. Something about having a mouth and 32 teeth around my penis turns me off. The concept of someone tasting my bodily fluids turns me off too. But if it's the other way round - YESSS! Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 I love going down on my man. I love pleasing him, and I enjoy making him feel good. It gives me pleasure. But that's just me, and that's just this man. I never liked it before in anyother relationship. I guess it just goes to show that everyone is different. Link to comment
melrich Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 Most girls dont like it but just do it to please there man Is that true? Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 Melrich, honey you sound disappointed. I honestly enjoy going down on my man....But in other relationships I haven't enjoyed it. I think it all depends on the couple. Link to comment
Survictor Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 I have felt differently about this with different partners. For one, it was just to please him for example. With my current partner.. I love to give him BJ's because I know how much pleasure it gives him. Link to comment
Survictor Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 I must also add that giving him a BJ is not just a treat for him. It makes me really turned on too. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 I must also add that giving him a BJ is not just a treat for him. It makes me really turned on too. definitely turns me on Link to comment
melrich Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 Melrich, honey you sound disappointed. LOL...well unless my partner is telling me massive lies, I am pretty sure she enjoys it but I would be dissappointed to think that was the attitude of most women. As much for women as for men. I mean think about it. If that's true, you have millions and millions and millions of women around the world doing something they don't like to do whilst pretending that they like it!! Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 I agree, b/c i bet you 9 out of 10 women do it. Now whether they like it or not ???? Link to comment
starling603 Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 I love to give a blow job because it gets me off, knowing I can do that to him....Are you INTO your man???? think about that... Link to comment
Axel3sRoxas Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 I'm also with the scores of females above in saying that I absolutely love giving oral sex to my boyfriend, though you don't have to worry if you don't enjoy it at the moment. It's when your in a comfortable relationship with someone you love and trust that things like this become pleasurable for you aswell as him. Link to comment
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