FiredandHurt Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Just curious...women in general are hard to figure out.. Do any women here entertain any fantasies? Curious what the most common one is? I would imagine 50 years ago it was male dominance but I don't think that is the case now... Thanks Link to comment
Aschleigh Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 I love being listened to, understood. A man who seems really interested in me turns me on. Also if he is really nice to me, considerate of my feelings, etc.. If I feel like he loves me, that's the biggest turn on. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 I like a guy who is considerate, understanding, takes the time to listen to me, be affectionate. As for fantasies, I tend to like BDSM fantasies. A little pain with pleasure goes a long way. Link to comment
BillyJean714 Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Hmm...In other words, what turns me on about a guy? First off: 1. Humbleness- I LOVE love it when a guy's humble. That's why I'm not into the cocky overly sarcastic kind of guy (gets on my nerves..) 2. Respectful- towards everyone of all ages, all class, and all sexual orientation. He doesn't look down, condescend, or make cruel remarks about people just because they're different. 3. Guy who knows himself- shows confidence. I don't like crowd pleasers, or guys who try to act like players or wannabe thugs, oh, and guys who wear black tights over their heads. Can't stand that.. 4. Educated- HOT. 5. Guy in a suit or khaki's and baby-blue dress shirts. Nice!! That's what pretty much turns me on in a guy. Fantasies? I usually like to fantasize about the guy that I'm officially with. Just that kind of girl. I can't imagine doin it with a guy I don't love or don't have strong emotional feelings for. Different women operate differently. There is no general consensus when it comes to female fantasies, I guess. Link to comment
thegirl_00 Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Porn makes me want to have sex. I know, its unusual for a girl lol. oh well. Link to comment
TheRedQueen Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Yes I have many sexual fantasies. Nothing too bizarre just your average fantasy featuring Fabio, a traveling menagerie and a couple of blow dryers. Link to comment
mystik Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 4. Educated- HOT. Agreed Not neccessarily educated, but motivated academically. I'm in university and whenever I study with a boyfriend, or am in the same room while he studies hard for a test, I just like to watch him study Maybe I'm weird but it really is quite "HOT." It's really cute how hard he's concentrating =) Link to comment
Friendly Encourager Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 I love being watched. My ultimate fantasy would be to perform in one of those "adult book stores" behind the glass. Watching a guy watching me...ohh...the thought sends tingles. Link to comment
Serendipity1607307077 Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Agreed Not neccessarily educated, but motivated academically. I'm in university and whenever I study with a boyfriend, or am in the same room while he studies hard for a test, I just like to watch him study Maybe I'm weird but it really is quite "HOT." It's really cute how hard he's concentrating =) Geeks, nerds, it's all good... I'm incredibly attracted to intellect... Link to comment
lbgeef Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 i like to be man handled myself!! to be thrown against a wall and just kissed sends a throb or being sneaky around others who don't know about the "secret relationship" you two have and so he sneaks up behind me and brushen against me and whispers in my ear!! i love being told what to do and directed durring sex!! When a guy acts like he has control over touching me and teases me a little bit is a HUGE turn on and is enough to drive me crazy!! BUT its important to not be an a**hole! then again every girl or human is defferent in what turns them on!! just be yourself and a girl will be attracted if your what attracts her!! ask her what she likes!! (you'll be surprised how open females are) were worse than men and enjoy talking about our dirty secrets!!! Link to comment
rocio Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Male dominance is still sexy, even in 2006! I love to be slapped and have my hair pulled. Good porn also turns me on. Link to comment
MyTeddyBear Posted October 18, 2006 Share Posted October 18, 2006 Self confidence. Very important. A bit standoffish, I like a little bit of challenge. He must smell good, not cologne... I hate that. Just clean. No yuppie types. I like a little bit of edgy. There's more but that's all I can think of for now. Link to comment
hosswhispra Posted October 18, 2006 Share Posted October 18, 2006 That movie, the Notebook. Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted October 18, 2006 Share Posted October 18, 2006 Yes I have many sexual fantasies. Nothing too bizarre just your average fantasy featuring Fabio, a traveling menagerie and a couple of blow dryers. LOL! For me, it's a guy who makes me laugh with what I think is "smart" funny. Or stupid humour, who'm I kidding? Ryan Stiles is a god and I love him. Link to comment
TheRedQueen Posted October 18, 2006 Share Posted October 18, 2006 ^ I was waiting for someone to get that, thanks Ta Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted October 18, 2006 Share Posted October 18, 2006 ^ I was waiting for someone to get that, thanks Ta Sure - no prob. I speak RedQueen. I get you.... ...sometimes. :scramble: Link to comment
Deviant_Kate Posted October 18, 2006 Share Posted October 18, 2006 Fantasies? I like losing myself in memories of past sexual encounters, and one thing that really gets me is fantasizing about my "partner" pressing me up against a wall and kissing me - assertive, but not aggressive. Link to comment
NKP Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 Porn makes me want to have sex. I know, its unusual for a girl lol. oh well. Same here i love it and get turned on so much Link to comment
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