leave him alone for a few weeks.

[bluem00n]

I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years a year ago supposedly during a break. He found out about it but has been demanding to see a picture of the guy & how i got it. So, i got the picture & send him the conversation with timestamps (my cousin had it on her computer.)

 

He saw the picture, okay, the guy is ugly, so says everyone. he, then, told me to leave him alone. I asked him if it is over or he needs time to think, he said he needs time. I asked him if he wants me to get my stuff & be out of his life. He said no, just leave him alone for a few weeks because hes really mad. He said he has to block me. The last three sentences he said were, 'im sorry if this hurts (blocking me)', 'i love you,' 'im sorry.'

 

I havent heard from him for... about 12 hours. Should I respect his wish with no emails, no nothing?

 

Somebody said that time helps a relationship and especially if one respects ones wishes and that will make them look more 'attractive.'

 

i need some guidance.

[Ipso Fracto Man]

Give him some time to lick his wounds. He'll be back.

[Rabican]

maybe send him an email just declaring your deepest apologies, and tell him that you hope when hes ready hell be willing to give you another shot, until then you will give him the space he needs.

[yeawutever]

Yea you might want to give him his space,only time will tell if he wants to come back.

[pacopaco]

give him his time, but know that in that time he may decide to be gone for good. you made a choice, and now he wants to make one. he's actually giving you a courtesy you didn't give to him.