dancingmsg Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 hi everybody, I am not whinning here but figured this xmas will be very hard for a loner. Really don't want to stuck in my house and crying all day long. So anyone got any suggestions for a single lonely guy? Except get a girlfriend because it is not going to happen in three weeks ;-) thanks yall Link to comment
registered Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 Maybe you could help out with a charity over the Christmas break. That would be a great thing to do. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 How about making Christmas time your personal time and since you are single you can find different things to do with your time that wont get you down. Link to comment
RayKay Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 Look in your area for some of those big seasonal single parties, there usually are a few around depending on your town/city. Or, how about you find another single buddy and do your own thing - go on a short ski trip for example around the holidays sometime. Charities are another great idea - get involved with a christmas hamper organization, or a shelter, or community kitchen. Find new traditions to do as a single guy, that are not just what you would do with a partner, minus the partner. It really helps to create NEW memories, rather then dwell on old ones. If they never did those things with you, you won't be pining over them. Link to comment
darkblue Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 Volunteer work. That would be my best suggestion. Remember that Christmas is not about receiving presents, eating food until you puke, etc. It is supposed to be about compassion. Depeding on where you live, I'm sure you can find a few organisations which could use your help over the festive period. Plus, it's a good way to meet new people. Happy Holidays. Link to comment
heloladies21 Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 Except get a girlfriend because it is not going to happen in three weeks ;-)thanks yall Why not? Why would you say that when you can learn how to get girls anytime you want? I'll pm you some sites to help you with this because it's a skill you can learn like any other. Link to comment
atraceofblood Posted December 8, 2005 Share Posted December 8, 2005 Why not? Why would you say that when you can learn how to get girls anytime you want? I'll pm you some sites to help you with this because it's a skill you can learn like any other. man you're always pming people your websites LOL hey man, I'm kind of in the same boat as you as I don't want to sit around and do nothing for a month and a half before school starts up again. I'm unsure of what to do, and I really want to hang out with friends and even meet some women. I think I'll have to look into the volunteer suggestions. I might even take up temp jobs or something, maybe try that if you aren't working. Link to comment
lostwithlove Posted December 8, 2005 Share Posted December 8, 2005 > It just so happens that I got hold of these sites heloladies recommends. Enjoy Link to comment
wlfpack81 Posted December 8, 2005 Share Posted December 8, 2005 Hey I'm single, in a part of the country I hate and have to actually work Christmans Eve/Day and the 2 days after that so you're not totally alone my friend. We'll make it through the holidays. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 Volunteer. It is the spirit of giving to the less fortunate which is what the holidays are all about. Volunteer to spend time with others who are lonley on Christmas - such as elderly people who may not have family to see. Link to comment
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