AlessiaB Posted February 10 Share Posted February 10 Basically exactly what the title says. We both feel like crap but now I'm confused on what to do because I think I may actually like him. So I made a pretty tight knit group of friends at the start of the school year a few months ago. There's 4 of us, me and my best girl friend and two guys who are also best friends. We hangout all the time, pretty much all day everyday. One of the guys likes me, but I wouldn't be his girlfriend because I realized after messing around a few times that I just don't feel that way. I felt like I was being selfish so I told him straight up we couldn't date and that it would be best if we didn't spend too much time together (even though I love him like crazy as a friend) alone to avoid problems. I don't know if he even listened to me because he still tells me to this day that he'll wait for me if I change my mind. My girl friend has recently developed a huge crush on the other guy and they flirt, but they both said they aren't dating. Now before this, I'm pretty sure we had zero attraction to each other. I always thought he was cute but I don't think either of us ever considered getting involved. But since our group hangs out so often, he and I would end up alone sometimes. Recently, he came with me as my plus one to a wedding (which my girl friend gave permission to even though they aren't dating). We ended up dancing the whole night and we slept together when he came over to my house that night. It felt so amazing in the moment but I felt terrible the morning after and made him leave. We've met up a few times since then and he's basically said that what happened has to mean something because it's something we never would've done 6 months ago when we met and that there are obvious feelings there. I keep avoiding the conversation because I feel terrible and so does he, but he said he's willing to be the one to tell them and take the fall for it. He wrote me a letter saying that falling in love with me was the last thing he expected but that he wants to give it a try or else we'll regret it. I feel so conflicted. Our friends know something is up because we haven't been hanging out with them. I'm scared of their reaction-even though I know I fully deserve it. Like yes, technically all of us are single but I knew she liked him and I still slept with him. I know I did a really crappy thing, I Feel like I betrayed them in a way. I don't know if I should tell them and try it out with him or just bury this completely. Quote Link to comment
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