Help me with this situation

[E1811]

Hi all, this may be a long winded post and may not make any sense but to be honest I need a little help cause i`m not sure i`m doing things right and it`s making my life hell. This involves alot of spirtuality...Not sure if the forum or anyone knows about that here but lets give it a go.

So a few months ago me and they (Shall remain anonymous) matched on Tinder, We spoke and they forgot to message me, must`ve had a busy life at the time. No worries no bother there wasn`t anything at this stage and I wasn`t expecting anything to materalise.

October they came back and we hit it off and things moved to Instagram... Just to add we both iniated conversation and kept it going

We continued getting on really well until I popped up again and they was being a bit...off, They didn`t sound it but I felt it. I think I know the reason why because i`ve had this happen to me before, where as if someone likes you they act dismissive and off almost like they hate you or don`t wanna know you or don`t wanna confront their feelings. I also think they`re shy and haven`t been in this situation before.

Anyway now the games begin, Where do I even begin. Thinks it`s better if I list all what`s happened since October and now

They watch us on Instagram and a quick little test shows they`ve got our notifications on everytime I post on my stories.

Theres so many synchronicities and that`s before the numbers lol 🤣 for example the 10th of November was my mums birthday and I was thinking of posting a message to her on my stories, later that night they posted on there stories of their mum (I did post something earlier on then them and they hadn`t seen that yet)

Dreamt about carving pumpkins, woke up they posted on there stories carved pumpkins

The other day I posted a quote about missing something with the words `I miss you`, Next day they posted in tribute to someone who passed and in the message was `I miss you`

Theres also...I dunno what you would call these but very weird incidents for example I posted a photo of myself and i`m looking out into the distance (Halloween photo) in like a posed shot, 2 days later they posted a photo of themselves with the camera facing upwards of them looking out into the distance and I can`t help but think that little situation is trying to tell me something.

Others include I wore a ghost jumper in a video, Few days later they`re wearing a skeleton shirt (It`s the halloween theme that gets it for me)

This one I only thought of today but I posted a photo of me looking absolutely like a car crash after a halloween night out with a confused expression looking into the mirror, They posted a photo of themselves (Day/days later) and it`s very similar to mine, Phone in same hand, both wearing black, both got the same expression, both the same angle and both looking into the mirror.

 What i`ve also come to notice is when I was posting all that ^ in like a 2 week window they was active and would post after me. Things have died down a bit now and I think it`s cause I can feel there energy, but to be honest I had nothing else to post and they rarely post either on stories or on Insta now. I get the feeling if I post a photo of myself they will come back and start being active again. I get the sense at this stage we was both trying to impress one another 🤣

This one bugs me alot is they posted on there insta stories pretty early on how a girl will eventually message them back but from there mates point of view...I have no idea if they was hinting at me or what.

We`ve got so many similarities...We share the same birth date 18, Even going as far as both having 8 in our Insta names, It seems we both like the colour black, We like the same things, We`ve both worked in schools, Support the same team. So somehow my technophobe brain has worked us out as being twin flames at this point.

Numbers...Oh my god theres so many numbers on the daily. I do look each of them up and I get the understanding to a degree but I can`t figure out what they`re trying to tell me. 4/44 and 8 are constant daily.

I`ve had an Squirrel visit me, I`ve had countless spiders but think they were visiting me for a different reason as they`ve now all scattled.

Haven`t had a dream of them yet...:(. But I`ve had many weird dreams, Snow laying on the ground which signifies new beginnings apparently, A dog sleeping on top of me and if I move it, it bares it`s teeth, A girl with blonde hair (Harley Quinn) and for some reason the colour purple is associated with that dream alot.

I also think I can feel there energy...Although find that hard too. 

Same love songs over and over, Repeatedly see there name...There was even a news report the other day where they had 3 reporters for one 1 report and it was one male reporter with there name and the next was a woman with my name! I`m being told countless times of union, rebirth, reunion. I`m tuning into my intuition.

I`m just looking for some help because I feel as though i`m being given signs (numbers) but i`m not fully understanding what they mean or trying to tell me. I`m not looking to step forward and initate messaging first just yet because I would like to avoid adding anything to my embarrassing memory bank and let it haunt me for the rest of my life.

Are these many situations enough to say yeah theres something there and they will keep popping up until you get the blooming message. I do understand the concept of patience and waiting and so but I would just like some understand and clarity of these angel numbers. I have the feeling we`re in sync and we`re mirroring each other...alot

Any...Any help at all is welcomed

[Batya33]

I think these are fun coincidences and basically meaningless on any personal level as far as whether you two have anything in common should  you meet in person. Also my sense is some of these are fabricated by her based on what she has gleaned from you. This is not about intuition but you choosing to see a pattern in seeming random acts and coincidences. How is your social life in person or real life ?

[Wiseman2]

8 minutes ago, E1811 said:

we hit it off and things moved to Instagram...

Have you met in person?

[E1811]

5 minutes ago, Batya33 said:

I think these are fun coincidences and basically meaningless on any personal level as far as whether you two have anything in common should  you meet in person. Also my sense is some of these are fabricated by her based on what she has gleaned from you. This is not about intuition but you choosing to see a pattern in seeming random acts and coincidences. How is your social life in person or real life ?

But how many coincidences do you have before it turns into something else. It`s just the way they`ve happened it happened like day after day and they keep on happening

[E1811]

7 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Have you met in person?

No but in the early stages they did invite me round to theres but I had to decline as it was 8pm at night and no transport to get there, They live about an hour away. It`s still kind of in the early stages

[Kwothe28]

I have an uncanny ability to guess which movie they will gona do rerun on local TV stations. I usually think about some movie, and a week or two from that moment, usually some TV shows it. Now to you it may look like superpower, but its really not, they are doing a lot of reruns of older movies so a possibility to guess is not that low.

I would look at your happenings in that same manor. As just a coincidences. Maybe not even that because you subcontiously connect some stuff they dont even think about with your situations. 

If they didnt message you on dating app and then cooled off a communication, there is a quite large possibility they just dont like you in a romantic sense. You inventing some coincidences to make it appear like they do, or even saying stuff like

20 minutes ago, E1811 said:

i`ve had this happen to me before, where as if someone likes you they act dismissive and off almost like they hate you or don`t wanna know you or don`t wanna confront their feelings.

and inventing BS excuses for them, is not it. 

If they dont talk to you often or get on dates with you, possibility of them liking you is quite low. Sorry...

[Wiseman2]

10 minutes ago, E1811 said:

No but in the early stages they did invite me round to theres but I had to decline as it was 8pm at night and no transport to get there, They live about an hour away.

Unfortunately it seems like you have a crush but all he offered was a hookup if you drive to his place. There is nothing mystical about a man who treats you like an escort.

Let go. Date people in person so you can get to know them.

[E1811]

1 minute ago, Kwothe28 said:

I have an uncanny ability to guess which movie they will gona do rerun on local TV stations. I usually think about some movie, and a week or two from that moment, usually some TV shows it. Now to you it may look like superpower, but its really not, they are doing a lot of reruns of older movies so a possibility to guess is not that low.

I would look at your happenings in that same manor. As just a coincidences. Maybe not even that because you subcontiously connect some stuff they dont even think about with your situations. 

If they didnt message you on dating app and then cooled off a communication, there is a quite large possibility they just dont like you in a romantic sense. You inventing some coincidences to make it appear like they do, or even saying stuff like

and inventing BS excuses for them, is not it. 

If they dont talk to you often or get on dates with you, possibility of them liking you is quite low. Sorry...

........Just.......

[Batya33]

Even if it means you two both like mint chip ice cream when it’s cold outside and the same brand it’s still not a sign of anything to do with any personal connection between the two of you. My husband and I have some neat and unusually similar names of relatives in our family who are similarly connected plus we discovered my father knew one of his cousins many years and we had a really unusual coincidence about the middle name we chose for our son.
 And our story of getting back together is a bit like a movie. But none of that is why we’re right together. It’s just fun stuff that sometimes makes for neat conversations with friends or family.

No “signs “. You don’t need signs when two people want to be together because there’s no grasping at straws required. 

[catfeeder]

If you want to test this, ask them to meet somewhere halfway to share a quick bite and check one another out.

If the answer is yes, then that's meaningful.

Otherwise, you can read all the dreams and numbers you want, but it's not a productive use of your time.

[Coily]

I’ll start with I don’t believe in coincidences.

Now looking through your post, I think there are a lot of patterns that you are wanting to pick up on. Your heart is wanting something, so your brain starts to piece together elements that reinforce that desire.

Could some of these things be supernatural? Sure, but I think you’re interpreting these things to your narrative. If you’re familiar with pareidolia, where the brain strings together an image or thought from disconnected inputs, I think you are experiencing that.

Another possibility is that the Instagram algorithm is throwing things at you both; and results are a little too close between you two.

All that said don’t dismiss that gut reaction; but don’t sky lark about hoping for a miracle to happen. 

[MissCanuck]

Given that you have never met this person, you need to not read anything into the random coincidences you keep trying to apply meaning to. 

A lot of it is you projecting your desires, and is unrelated to this individual. I would take some time and unplug, as you seem to be going in circles looking for clues when you have never so much as met. Ask them to meet. If they say no, block and delete. 

How old are you, and if I may ask? 

[1a1a]

All that comes to mind is this *grimace grin*

[smackie9]

19 hours ago, E1811 said:

No but in the early stages they did invite me round to theres but I had to decline as it was 8pm at night and no transport to get there, They live about an hour away. It`s still kind of in the early stages

This is where reality hits....this person never bothered to properly ask you out on a date, or even made an effort to come out and see you. They ask you, a total stranger because well it's just social media not real life, for you to drive an hour at 8pm to see them at their place. That's a booty call. There is nothing romantic about that, nor are there any intentions of wanting to truly get to know you. I see games of manipulation if this person is purposely "mirroring" you. Don't fall for it.