davidoba Posted March 22, 2022 Share Posted March 22, 2022 my wife wants to divorce me, because she is no longer in love with me, she says she still loves me but she is no longer in love with me. what can I do to get her to fall back in love with me? OR is it just best we go our separate ways. What should I do??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melancholy123 Posted March 22, 2022 Share Posted March 22, 2022 More details would help! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkCh0c0 Posted March 22, 2022 Share Posted March 22, 2022 3 hours ago, davidoba said: she says she still loves me but she is no longer in love with me That's a tough one. If she said this, then this means she's been feeling this way for a good while. I think, unfortunately, it's best to go in separate ways. I'm sorry. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted March 22, 2022 Share Posted March 22, 2022 4 hours ago, davidoba said: What should I do??? The number one priority is to consult an attorney for information about your situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robhsdca Posted March 22, 2022 Share Posted March 22, 2022 Here is an off the wall question - have you asked her? I would ask her what has brought her to this point? Is it permanently broken or something she is willing to work to retrieve with you? Is she feeling this way and started to look elsewhere already? I think these are all questions for discussion with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted March 22, 2022 Share Posted March 22, 2022 Once I told my husband I wanted a divorce I had already made up my mind. There was no turning back. However, some people pull the "I want a divorce" card to try to shock their spouse into making a drastic effort to "prove" their love and fight for them. Or they use threats of divorce as punishment for doing something they don't like or as leverage in an argument. Without more details it's hard to know where your wife stands. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redswim30 Posted March 23, 2022 Share Posted March 23, 2022 NOTHING you can do or say can make someone love you, fall in love with you or fall "back in love" with you. Most women once they say they D word, there's no turning back and it really doesn't matter what you "do" at this point. Can I ask why you want to stay with someone who isn't in love with you? People don't like to hear this, but sometimes divorce IS the only solution. Even if you don't want to get divorced, your wife isn't going to be happy if she feels forced to stay with you and isn't in love with you. How would you feel staying married knowing your wife's heart isn't in it? Would you really feel happy watching her just go thru the motions? Details would help, but I would advise you to prepare for divorce. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostandhurt Posted March 25, 2022 Share Posted March 25, 2022 Once you give way more details you will get a lot of experienced advice but until then... Lost Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spinstermanquee Posted April 4, 2022 Share Posted April 4, 2022 sooooo many questions. how long married? were you ever "ideal" for each other? children? careers? was there an imbalance in money, children, or intimate relationships? what does your intuition tell you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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