Boyfriend dumped me

[Batya33]

What's to work on, really? If you know you don't handle alcohol well, don't drink.

 

Yes. Don't indulge in that overused "I have to work on this" -for many things it's doing or not doing. You can't handle your alcohol so choose not to drink. You violate peoples' privacy in their phones -choose not to touch someone else's phone ever unless the person wants you to check something. I'm married. I have looked at my husband's phone once or twice because he was in the shower and I was concerned it was important.

 

I've never used an illegal drug. Neither has my husband. I was around many many in my teens, 20s and 30s. It's a choice. I agree to go see a therapist and take "try" out of your vocabulary. This guy is irrelevant - it's your future and how you choose to interact with people and what your values are/how you plan to stick to those values which is important IMHO. Good luck.

[katrina1980]

Agree with MissCanuck and Batya -- it's about self-discipline.

 

You're strong, you can do it!

[Sarah3000]

Thanks guys

 

He randomley messaged today going why did i delete him from social media and then tried to re add me? What the hell?

[Batya33]

Thanks guys

 

He randomley messaged today going why did i delete him from social media and then tried to re add me? What the hell?

 

So what. It's just social media. Ignore it. Small, miniscule stuff - brush it off like an annoying fly or piece of lint.