Kkmart22 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 Hi guys, My bf of almost two years texted me Sunday morning after ignoring me all night to tell me he thought we should take a break but he didn’t say why. Then when I texted back and tried to get answers and call, I got nothing. So I didn’t go to work yesterday as I tried to piece stuff together... and today I finally went back and it was really hard. I had way too much free time to think, and broke down several times. It got to the point where I called him again on my break and only then did he start answering my texts. He implied he didn’t love me anymore bc of the issues I’ve been having and accused me of keeping him out even though I did that for self preservation so that if he didn’t care, it wouldn’t hurt. He told me he thought I should get help and he’s not wrong — I self harmed for the first time in a while on Saturday night when he ignored me. He ended up agreeing he would talk to me when he gets back from his work trip In a week. I’m still really hurt and confused. We were going to move in together and it seems very strange to try to just back away from a person instead of saying “in order to keep this relationship going, I think you should get help.” He just went straight to trying to get rid of me, and he mentioned twice he didn’t want worrying about me to affect his job opportunities, so now I just feel extra stupid... So I don’t even know if we’re still together and I don’t know how I’m supposed to get by for a whole week without talking to him. I feel sick all the time and I just really need some guidance (yes, I did find a therapist to talk to) Link to comment
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