Lost 73 Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 Need advice on how to deal with Finances after a breakup Bit of background on the relationship money wise. I was a single male going into a relationship with a woman who had a teenage daughter. We split everything 50/50 at first money wise. But then she took a lesser paying job and I put much more money into the “House” money. I made like $200K+ in the 4 years together and she maybe $100K. in that course of time no one complained. When we broke up she had some debt $15K worth. Not getting into who caused what because at this time does it really matter? We agreed to stay friends with the stipulation that I paid half her debt off. My feeling is I took care of her and her Daughter from high school into college. That I left the relationship with nothing but personal effects and she kept everything that was purchased together. And If I wanted any of the furniture I was expected to pay her for half but I am not getting my half for what she’s keeping and in fact she has sold off a bunch of it. We never got married, Should I have to pay off half of her debt? Part of me says yes but I am kind to a fault. I want to her what others think. Please ask questions if need be Link to comment
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