Brokenheartedm Posted February 16, 2018 Share Posted February 16, 2018 So I learned to move on and excited to meet a new girl, I have the ex on social media and she post her new boyfriend (whatever) that’s fine but today something stood out to me that kinda made me mad, I’m not gunna say anything and I’ll go on with my life but 1. Her and her new boyf made it official on the 14th not the same month but we got together on that day as well and 2. Her friend (my neighbor) said she’s glad she found a man who appreciates her 😅. I was good to her these people just got together so of course it’s gunna be lovey dovey, my patience started to ware thin when she had multiple guys hitting her up and after the break up I had many and I mean many people telling me she is no good . Just wanted to rant a little the end going on with the day now Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted February 17, 2018 Share Posted February 17, 2018 Why havent you blocked and deleted her from social media? Being annoyed because she's moving on with her life is a waste of your time. What do you care what she's doing now? Link to comment
DanZee Posted February 17, 2018 Share Posted February 17, 2018 Well, just keep in mind Feb 14th was Valentine's Day, so I don't think that has anything to do with the day of the month you became official. Also ENA recommends you cut off all contact and stop looking at her social media. You will just keep hurting yourself and keep from healing. It may take some time, but it will get easier as you move on. Link to comment
Pleasedonot5 Posted February 17, 2018 Share Posted February 17, 2018 I agree with the melancholy123's advice. Best to block her so she loses power over you. Keeping yourself emotionally attached by looking at the things she's saying on social media - why do that to yourself? Link to comment
Brokenheartedm Posted February 17, 2018 Author Share Posted February 17, 2018 @ Dan it was November 14th we got together on 14th of August which is my bday and vday yes different months but she texted me the day we broke up this yr saying can u believe it’s been a year she knows what the 14th is Link to comment
boltnrun Posted February 17, 2018 Share Posted February 17, 2018 So why are you still connected to her via social media? Are you still hoping she comes back? Link to comment
Brokenheartedm Posted February 17, 2018 Author Share Posted February 17, 2018 @boltrun mentally I don’t want her back, before this guy she did date another guy for a few weeks, she’s been with way too many guys for me to want back. I learned to accept she moved on was I upset? Absolutely but I feel if I delete her she wins cause she’ll know or think it bothers me. Back in January she rxt me can u believe it’s been a year since we been broken up so she knows the 14th is the day we first kissed now all sudden their first kiss was the 14th of November doesn’t make sense Link to comment
boltnrun Posted February 17, 2018 Share Posted February 17, 2018 Who gives a darn what she thinks?? She "wins" if you delete her? That's really silly. Why do you care? Unless...you still care so much what she thinks of you because you're still secretly hoping her new relationship fails and she comes back to you. Why else would it even matter? Link to comment
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