tsa902 Posted February 8, 2018 Share Posted February 8, 2018 I'm not sure whether this is the right place to post because we were essentially never 'together' but we were close to be. I met this beautiful lady at the beginning of 2017. She started to fall in love with me on April but I was too dumb to know. We hit it off and chemistry was great and so was the intimacy. I confessed my feelings to her in August And she said that I should let her know when i'm ready for a relationship. Unfortunately, she had to go back overseas in September to personal/family issues which. She came back here and now lives another state away and starting school there. We are only 1 hour plane flight away. We couldn't be together because of this because it would be too difficult at this time. She arrived back in country last few weeks now. She is only 1 state away. While she was gone, We would always text each other. I guess i became too emotional because she is an unemotional person via text and I was getting frustrated. My issue is that I depended on her as my main social outlet because I didn't have many other friends to talk to. She said that she couldn't deliver equal and emotional response so she feels like a massive emotional burden and blocker. I told her I needed time off to heal a heart break. She said "take as much time as I need and when you come back ill be here". Look in short, I really do love this person to from the bottom of my heart. I do feel like I have things to work on, such as finding new social groups so that I dont have to rely emotionally and socially on one person. She said "Theres no way that my emotions can match up to yours and its unfair". She said she liked me but didn't love me and didn't want to hold my hand and guide me through the process of finding myself. She is currently studying at another state for 2 years. She might go back to Singapore then, so she doesn't want the same emotional pressure but stability instead. There always room to grow as a person. And I want to grow and be the person for her. I don't want idealism but stability. I'm trying to open up my social circle and try to make new friends. Any advice on how to save this? Its been 2 days NC. Im missing many information about the relationship. So ask any questions :) Link to comment
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