Bru Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 We had been together since 2011 and married early 2013. We have a house, she has been unemployed all this time but i took very good care of her and she respected and supported me. In 2017 she suddenly told me that she no longer loved me the way she did at the beginning. i suggested we seek marriage councelling, she refused saying we can try sort things out. she began leaving me on weekends saying she is visiting her family and attendig church. She would return on mondays with a hangover. After several attempts to convince her to fix things and not go every weekend, she would get angry at me. I got stressed about this and asked her to go tell her family that she is leaving the marriage coz thats what she wanted anyway. She packed her things and left. I found out that she was dating another guy all this time. This guy dresses in expensive labels and buys alcohol for her. But where he works, he doesnt earn much, therefore he must be buying them from clothing accounts. She always sent me call back messages to get help finding jobs and assitence with interviews. She borrowed money in December, I gave her but it was so little i did not mind coz she never even returned it. I dont feel i should be supporting her with money but theres those unresolved feelings she may come back. Link to comment
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