Sagittarius35 Posted December 31, 2017 Share Posted December 31, 2017 Hello everyone!!! I've been in my current relationship for 10 months. My boyfriend has 3 kids and I have two kids myself. He has met my kids but I havent met his kids. He's always telling me that he's going to let me meet them but right now he's trying to keep down confusion with his baby momma. He tells me that his babymomma will try to keep the kids away from him and that she has the control over whether or not he sees the kids. Being honest I Love him and he tells me that he loves me so it's not about the money. But because of him having one job and child support being on him for 3 kids, he cant help me when i need help. When i do ask him for help he gets upset and tells me that nobody is helping him. My mother feels that i deserve better because I need someone to help me financially. She tells me that its not a big problem with her that he doesnt have it but the fact that he acts like he shouldn't help. Another issue is his phone, whenever he's with me he has it hidden or has it on silent. When i asked to see his phone he got very upset. I feel like something isnt right and i dont want to be his fool or nobody's fool. We have good times also, when we come together there's a closeness. I feel like he's more than just a lover but a best friend also. Are these things a red flag saying that i should walk away from this relationship? Or should I try to give it a little more time? I'm confused and I dont know what to do but I know that I dont want to be in a relationship that I cant trust that person. Link to comment
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