Do I text?

[Expedition]

So my bf and I had a falling out because I caught him in another lie. I told him this was the final show that if he wasn’t going to be honest that I was done.

 

This happened Tuesday. I asked him to do some serious thinking about whether or not he could be honest and a gentleman and continue with us It’s now Friday night and there hasn’t been any contact from him.

 

My question is, do I contact him or do I wait for him to contact me? What do you suggest?

[Capricorn3]

Don't text.

[IAmFCA]

Resolve for yourself that you did what needed to be done.

 

Do not text.

[GatorXP]

So my bf and I had a falling out because I caught him in another lie. I told him this was the final show that if he wasn’t going to be honest that I was done.

 

This happened Tuesday. I asked him to do some serious thinking about whether or not he could be honest and a gentleman and continue with us It’s now Friday night and there hasn’t been any contact from him.

 

My question is, do I contact him or do I wait for him to contact me? What do you suggest?

Under no circumstances.

[Wiseman2]

What is he chronically lying about? Wait for a response rather than pounding this into the ground. It mat be time to reconsider this rather than hoping to change him with ultimatums.

I caught him in another lie. I told him this was the final show that if he wasn’t going to be honest that I was done. My question is, do I contact him or do I wait for him to contact me?

[milly007]

Don't text. He's the one that lied. He screwed up. You've told him how you feel. It's up to him to either change, or not. You've made your boundaries clear. By contacting him, I think you would be compromising your boundaries. Stay strong.

 

Further to this, I'm not quite sure why you'd want stay with someone who lies?

[indea08]

Do NOT text.

 

If I were you, I'd consider myself single and start moving on. If he cared to fix the relationship, he'd be putting in the effort. Buh-bye liar.

[Pleasedonot5]

I agree with the other poster who asked "what did he lie about?" I think that would shed more light on this situation.

[boltnrun]

Did you mean it when you said you were done? Or did you hope saying that would force him into some kind of action?

[Raindropsun]

Don't text, don't call.

 

If this was the final straw then it should just be over. Empty threats mean he will just continue his behavior.

 

If he doesn't contact you in 2 days, I would forget about him. He obviously doesn't care about you or the relationship. So why care about him and give him so many chances?

[DaisyMayPorter]

What exactly is he lying about, and has he been in touch?