Jillstrand23 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 Last week, I broke up with my boyfriend. I found out he had been lying to me about partying on the side with other people and keeping in contact with 'bad' people. If that makes any sense... We live together so I took a bag of clothes and my cat and went to my mom's. He got super upset. Whilst we were on the phone, I told him that I could offer him friendship. His tone immedeatly changed. On my way to my mom's I started to cry and realized that I really do love and miss him tremendously and I was blinded by another man, getting back together with an alternate ex. Now I know what you are going to say, 'It didn't work out with your ex so you went back to your boyfriend/' Well, yes that is the truth. I would rather be in a good solid relationship than a fantasy one with someone else who could care less if I even existed. At least my BF loves me, takes care of me, gives me attention and all the rest. SO I went to his work to give him a ride home (we share a car) and when I saw him the tears just started to swell up and flow out of me. THen that night I told him I wanted some space and that it was over between us. Well, at 2:45 AM , I get a call from him telling me he loves me misses me and for me to please come home. I answered straight away and said good night and that I would be spending the night at my mom's. Then he told me that he wrote me an email. He wrote the email and it was LONG and he confessed to all the lies he had been telling me about his drug use and insecurities and he expressed so much in that letter that I decided to take him back. My only point here is if I had not offered him friendship, the lines of communication would not have stayed open like they are now. So, this is my advice which goes against everything here, if you want to get back together, offer someone friendship, you never know what can happen. He has kept his promise on all of the changes he said he would make and I trust him fully and he is on his way to recovery from his drug issues. Thanks for reading and please love each other, PEACE! AND if it gets too much to handle, take a break ... talk to friends, family, focus on your career and always focus on your dreams. Link to comment
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