boltnrun Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 "he told me he would prefer if I didn't discuss these issues with them," Of course he doesn't want your parents to know he's a drug user! Because he knows they'd pressure you to stay away from bad news like him because they love you. Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 once people make their issues your issues, they've given you reason to make mention of them while talking about yourself. its your story. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 "he told me he would prefer if I didn't discuss these issues with them," Of course he doesn't want your parents to know he's a drug user! Because he knows they'd pressure you to stay away from bad news like him because they love you. I misread. I thought MOM didn't want you talking to the issues with them (mom and dad) because they didn't want to hear it/it hurt to hear/they wanted you to figure it out yourself, but if you mean HE doesn't want you to discuss it - i agree relationship issues such as libido shouldn't be discussed with parents but DRUG USE should if you feel you are not strong enough to leave!! By your dad liking him, it sways you that "he's a good guy". I would tell mom and dad the reason why you keep leaving him just to keep yourself accountable - sometimes voicing it gives you strength and helps you change. Link to comment
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