heyhelpme Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 My boyfriend has always loved sex. We have been together for over 2 years, but recently his love for sex has turned into more of an obsession and it is really starting to wear me out in so many different ways . I like having sex. When it's romantic and passionate and loving. I really like it. But everyday at the moment... what feels like all day, all my boyfriend seems to do is nag me to have sex or do sexual things with him. It feels like every half an hour he will ask me to do something, and it is just bringing me down to the point where I am starting to feel kind of numb. I wouldn't mind so much if it felt loving and romantic but it just doesn't because of the way I feel pressured and forced into it a lot of the time. I literally feel like I am just an object, and like my company isn't worth anything other than being an object for sex. Even when he isn't with me, all he does is text me porn gifs or tell me what he is gunna do to me when he gets home. When he talks about it (in real and on the phone/over text) - it is always really graphic and weird stuff he wants to talk about, which just turns me off even more and annoys me and upsets me. He went away for a week to visit his parents recently, and no word of a lie - 95% of the whole time he was away, all he did was text me about sex. He was sending me stuff 24/7 and he just really creeped me out everything it is just becoming so tedious to me. I have spoken to him about what I like sex wise but I know he just thinks it's boring so he never bothers, I feel like he would never try the way I try for him. (Just to add - I have done some sex stuff with him which is completely and beyond out of my comfort zone just to make him happy. I'm not sure what more I can do?) I am starting to just feel like I am not good enough or right for him anymore, he wants to talk about all this crazy stuff I just can't. We are super close but I am just starting to feel that I can't deal with this much longer, I wanna feel normal and feel loved. What should I do?? How should I feel? Is it normal I feel this way? (I don't think I will break up with him, maybe I should, but I just want some advice on how to help the situation, please.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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