NSAL Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 We've been friends for a few years and knew we kind of liked it each other. we'd always been there for each other and supported each other in our careers. he would always say we are just friends though but he would treat me like a girlfriend. We hooked up just recently and everything seemed fine and it felt normal. Until I noticed him pull away and I asked if everything was ok and he said I think we are just friends and we'll leave it as that, I love you to bits but as a friend and I hope you find a soul mate and he better be good to you. I was really upset and he kept saying just think we are great friends and we are always there for each other. Our mutual friend got up him about it and said you know how she feels about you and you did that and he just said I wanted to see if we had anything and then he said it was just bit of fun no strings attached thing. That made me wild and I didn't talk to him for a few weeks. He asked me to meet him out for a drink after we'd gone to separate parties. we were dancing and having a great time, we were happy too see each other, he seemed to be into me again,flirty etc and then he said he was going to another club to meet his friends and for me and my friend to meet him there but he wouldn't wait for us to finish our drinks and just left. we got to the other club and he wasn't there, then he messaged and said come to another club and that he's got me a drink, 20 min later we got there but I couldn't find him.I was messaging him but he was just saying things like party woohoo. I was getting really angry cause I couldn't find him and I just wanted to hangout with him and so I began calling him names and why does he ditch me (he has done this before while we were out) and then he replied 'Sorry but I took a girl home, hope you got lucky, thanks for the drink'. I was so devastated and angry I called him names again and then he blocked me on messenger. I couldn't stop crying and wondered why he would tell me that he took someone home knowing full well how I feel about him. So I deleted him off all my applications and said how could he rub it in my face like that, I am so over him and that our friendship was ended. The next day I regretted it and apologised and said that I was so upset that I couldn't find him and that he told me he took someone home and if I could just call him to talk. He said sorry he was working all day and that he was busy and that he no longer has time for me, and best of luck in my future. I was so upset that he wrote everything off just like that. He's now blocked my calls, blocked all of my applications except Facebook. He won't reply to any of my text messages. I am devastated that I have lost him and blame myself for pushing him over the edge Link to comment
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