Shania1234 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 After being with someone for four years and having to give them chance after chance I am finally at the end of it. I have given this person chance after chance. We recently moved out together and I had to leave because the emotional abuse was too much. Every time I asked him to talk he said that I wasn't being an adult and there was no reason to sit down and talk about things. I felt so ignored and taken for granted. I've done so much to be with him and all he does is ignore how i feel about things he does. I left him and went back to my parents house because I couldn't stand the crazy behaviour. he said I smiled at a car in the dark when i never even smiled and if I did what was the big deal? it was the neighbour pulling into the driveway late at night. I don't understand how that becomes a problem. he's been asking me to go back home but I don't know if I can put up with that any longer. I went to pick him up the other day just to talk and he ed at me for taking 3 hours. I was calling him the entire time and telling time that I was confused and driving around relentlessly because I didn't know what to do and this was a tough choice. when I finally got there he started yelling at me and stressing me out even more and putting more pressure on me instead of being understanding. he proceeded to put his child in my car and then went back into the house all the while still talking crap and making me feel uncomfortable. finally , I told him to take his son out of my car so I could leave because u wasn't about to put up with that attitude and he got angry and cursed at me infront of his son and slammed my car door and I drove off. he says I disrespected his son when i feel like he disrespected me.... I am a grown woman, I have never disrespected his kids in any way being with him for four years and the fact that he went off like that really hurt me and makes me think that he's just not worth all the stress. I deserve to be respected and not sworn at infront of anyone's kids especially since I didn't disrespect his child. all I said was get your son out of my car so that I can leave because I won't put up with this attitude/behaviour. was i wrong for doing so? Link to comment
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