DyanH123 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 I met a guy online we dated for 2 months and everything was fantastic. I have 2 kids and he has none. We are both in our 40s and the fact he had never lived with a partner or had kids was a bit of a red flag for me. But I liked him so I continued to go with the flow. Anyway couple of months in and we planned for him to meet my kids as we were planning a short holiday together, with friends and my kids. We postponed the first meetup cos he claims he fell asleep..hmm so on the second night when he was late I didn't bother to text to ask if he was coming. He texts me 45mins after he was due to say he is on his way and be there in a half hour (typical bachelor I think doesn't have to worry about the clock) I text him if you're still at home don't worry we had dinner without him and if you wanted to be here you would..then he dumped me. I still want him back I feel he didn't give it a chance. He gave no explanation other than he had doubts in his mind and talking wouldn't change anything ? I asked him to think about it some more and he said Ok. I haven't heard from him since..3 weeks now. I text him a couple of days after the dumping and said I miss you..no reply. So last week I wrote him a letter (yes I posted it too, it was a relief to do so cos I wrote all the things I wanted to say but couldn't) i didn't plead or beg. I have had no reply I didn't expect one actually. But I still want him back I know I should move on cos clearly he is not that into me..but is there any hope? Should I try contacting him again, not a good idea I know considering I have heard nothing but I thought if I gave ir more time...he may change his mind. Link to comment
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