IntegrityGirl Posted September 14, 2017 Share Posted September 14, 2017 My bf made loose plans with me as in, I'll text you later today & we can hang out. When I got off work, I went to the local bar with some co-workers. He called me while I was at the bar & I asked him to come have a drink with us. He replied that he had stuff to get done still. I finished my drink & invited 2 co-workers to my house - they came over & we listened to music, made nachos & french fries, had a few more beers. My bf did not call me again all night. I sent my co-workers home & went to sleep. The next day my bf is giving me the silent treatment. I told him I was sorry for disappointing him, but he did not call me nor did he want to join me & my co-workers (whom he knows). He says I blew him off to get drunk & that I have a drinking problem. I agreed that perhaps I could stay away from alcohol for awhile, especially beer (which I love) puts on weight. I asked him to stay the night with me but he said he'd feel like he's selling his soul if he did. I asked him what that meant but he would not elaborate. ?? I told him I don't want him to do something he's not comfortable with. He said he looks forward to spending the weekend h*mping me, but right now it just doesn't feel right. Again IDK: is he way too sensitive or is he an emotional abuser? Should I make myself unavailable this weekend? I hate stupid mind games. grr. Link to comment
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