Ex girlfriend hasn't collected her stuff

[Bobby Jo]

So we've been broken up for 2 weeks now and she told me to move on, I haven't spoken to her last few days and she was meant to come collect it on Saturday and she didn't turn up apparently she woke up late but I doubt it because she's usually up with the baby at 7am. Anyway she was meant to collect it tonight and still didn't turn up?? I haven't heard from her and don't want too because Im going no contact.

[Heavy]

Is there any chance you can have a family member or mutual friend collect and drop it off to her??

Maybe post items?

[Bobby Jo]

Is there any chance you can have a family member or mutual friend collect and drop it off to her??

Maybe post items?

 

No unfortunately not, don't have much money. Just wondering why she's doing this..

[shessofly]

Maybe it's not all that important to her. I'd give her a deadline and then it'd hit the dumpster.

[boltnrun]

Is it anything she absolutely can't live without?

 

There was someone who posted on here that he was trying to get his ex to come by to pick up her "stuff". Turns out the "stuff" was one sock.

 

Maybe she doesn't need the stuff and has decided to just let it go.

[Bobby Jo]

Maybe it's not all that important to her. I'd give her a deadline and then it'd hit the dumpster.

 

Is it anything she absolutely can't live without?

 

There was someone who posted on here that he was trying to get his ex to come by to pick up her "stuff". Turns out the "stuff" was one sock.

 

Maybe she doesn't need the stuff and has decided to just let it go.

 

Well it's parts for a travel cot (mattress, blanket, changing mat etc) she's been wanting to get it she even told me she'll be down today to collect it and just didn't turn up

[HeartGoesOn]

I'm sure if it's that important to her, she'll find a way, if not, there's your answer.

[reinventmyself]

If it's hers, then it's hers to worry about.

Apparently she's not worried about it.

You shouldn't be either.

[melancholy123]

Yes, a deadline of maybe a week at most and then dispose of it or give it to a thrift shop etc. If you have a front porch you can leave it there and tell her that's where it is.