missyumburger Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years and expecting a baby in 2 months. I told him I wanted to get married before the baby arrives. He said that we needed to save for my delivery first then we'll plan on the next step. However, we have a civil wedding in our country where it does not require you to spend a lot. You can get married for $50. It's fine with me as long as it's before the baby arrives. I even told him I might not settle down if the baby arrives (since my focus will be on the baby). He is okay with ir but the problem is, I don't see the initiative of him to plan the marriage, look for wedding rings or plan for a date. Right now, Im still waiting for his initiative to ask me of the plans but it's not happening. I think I have done my part on this one and it should be his turn already. Do you think he really has plans on his mind on getting married? Link to comment
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