jumparound80 Posted May 19, 2017 Share Posted May 19, 2017 So we have been married for about 8 months now, everything was fine prior to marriage. From the day we got married to today, it has been a living nightmare! She all of a sudden has become this extreme control freak! She wants to know every single aspect of my life, every single message on my phone, every single step I take. She expects me to just go to work, and come straight home. And if I take any detour or stop anywhere I must inform her first. Let me tell you how extreme it is.... If I was running out of gas on the way home and stopped at a petrol station and didnt tell her, all hell would break loose. Why didnt I call to say I'm stopping at a gas station to fill up. She basically made me cut ties with every single friend of mine because they are all "perverts" and because all men are perverts and she doesnt trust any of my friends..... when I confront her saying that she doesnt trust me, she goes "no i definitely trust you, its just everyone else around you I dont trust". For that reason I cant see my friends, I cant even go to the shops or have a coffee with a friend. If I even dare to speak about going to the shops she goes ape and asks why I want to go so bad, to perve at other women? Like seriously, I cant take this any longer. I love her but its getting too much. I gave up swimming because beaches are full of women in bikini and she doesnt want me around that environment. I gave up going out to dinners with friends. I gave up my entire social life just to keep her happy. The latest one was, a friend of mine sent me a photo, a funny meme, slightly rude but not THAT rude. She went ape over it saying we are disgusting animals if we think stuff like that is rude. And said she cant believe I have a friend that would send such disgusting photos..... The photo was a bloody sand castle in the shape of a vagina.... Oh and dont I dare watch any movies with rude scenes in them! I need to look away instantly if a woman is showing her cleavage even..... Its pathetic, its childish, I feel like we are back in 8th grade...... Never in my 25 years of life have I experienced such odd behaviour... My wife is 24. I need help, actually she needs help, but in her mind when I confront her, she thinks that every woman is like her and shes in the right and every woman is like her. This aint normal, far from normal..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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