firstluvstruck Posted May 9, 2017 Share Posted May 9, 2017 Ive been reading some recent posts about people breaking NC or really wanting to. Im in that boat atm. But all we are doing is giving them the power to make us happy..and with that the power to make us sad. Question is.. why on earth do we care so much how they are feeling. In our eyes their leaving doesn't make sense. She tells you that you are the best guy shes ever met amd still cares yet still leaves...chooses convenience and instant gratification over love. Ok that was too much of my story but back to the topic..why..do we care how they feel? Why do we (i) feel this need to continue to make her happy? Is it some human flaw? Is it as simple as wanting what we dont have? (I dont think this is 100% true). Do we want control over the situation?? Are we so atttached??? Link to comment
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