I kissed my straight friend, I want to talk to him about it. What do i say?

[Cg900]

Long story short, I kissed my straight friend while we were both drunk. We haven't talked since and I want to talk to him about it. Any tips or advice. Thanks all.

[WithLove]

Have you not talked because of it, or is it normal not to talk very often anyway?

[Wiseman2]

Just start talking but don't dive into it, let him bring it up.

Long story short, I kissed my straight friend while we were both drunk. We haven't talked since and I want to talk to him about it. Any tips or advice. Thanks all.

[abitbroken]

I would NOT talk about it. You were both drunk. Pretend it didn't happen. Don't kiss anyone drunk again, btw.

Only talk about it if they talk about it. What are you hoping to achieve by talking about it unless you want to apologize for being out of line?

[Cg900]

We usually talk everyday through messages

[Cg900]

Lol I like the guy why would I apologize. And he didn't push me off. He put his arms around me.

[Broomwood]

Well, now you know that your straight friend is not that straight. And he obviously is not in the dark about it if he was messaging you every day. The question is how comfortable he is with this when not drunk. He surely remembers the episode. The only important thing really is that he liked it. So why not do this again and hit him with the question then?

[Wiseman2]

There are a lot of articles and studies on straight men having homosexual activity straight men secretly have sex each other[/url]

 

"The term “bro job” generally refers to sex acts taking place between heterosexual men. The phenomenon was recently explored by Dr. Jane Ward in her book Not Gay: Sex Between Straight White Men, who suggests it's a lot more common than most people may think.

 

Sex therapist Susan Block agrees. “I hear about it going on in Saudi Arabia, in Latin America – I talk to guys from all over the world who are doing this. In all different cultures.”

 

Block explained to AlterNet that sexual activity between self-identifying straight males is one of the most common topics introduced during her therapy sessions with men."

[LaHermes]

Known as "Situational Homosexuality"

 

"Situational, or "emergency," homosexuality often occurs when participants find themselves in a single-sex environment or in physical isolation for an extended period of time. Some single-sex environments that frequently become venues for situational homosexuality include prisons, military settings, ships at sea, convents and monasteries, athletic teams on tour, pornography and prostitution, and colleges. Situational homosexual behavior is so commonplace in these situations that many nicknames have emerged for those who participate in such interactions. The following list provides examples of a number of these slang terms: "rugger-buggers" for rugby team-members, "jailhouse turnouts" for prison inmates, and "lugs" for females in college.4 This section details common settings in which situational homosexuality is believed to be prevalent."

[IAmFCA]

There are a lot of articles and studies on straight men having homosexual activity straight men secretly have sex each other[/url]

 

"The term “bro job” generally refers to sex acts taking place between heterosexual men. The phenomenon was recently explored by Dr. Jane Ward in her book Not Gay: Sex Between Straight White Men, who suggests it's a lot more common than most people may think.

 

Sex therapist Susan Block agrees. “I hear about it going on in Saudi Arabia, in Latin America – I talk to guys from all over the world who are doing this. In all different cultures.”

 

Block explained to AlterNet that sexual activity between self-identifying straight males is one of the most common topics introduced during her therapy sessions with men."

 

I have a very sexual male friend who is definitely straight, but lusts for a MFM experience in which he and she go down on the other he. I sense this desire has to do with a variety of turn ons that aren't about gender or sexual orientation. Therefore, I have come to conclude he is straight. Not even on the spectrum. His desire is pure objectification of himself and the other man.

[Matt3939]

Well there it is. Learn something new everyday. (Brojob) damn the internet. Just when I learn of stealthing now there's this. I'm not leaving the house.

[abitbroken]

Lol I like the guy why would I apologize. And he didn't push me off. He put his arms around me.

 

Because he was very drunk and you took advantage. Honestly, he could have imagined that you were Angelina Jolie for all we know. He could have been sloshed out of his mind. He may not remember kissing you. He might not have thought "what the heck happened?" I would not mention a thing to him unless he brings it up or seems to be distancing himself. if he distances, then you might want to break the ice and admit that you were inappropriate.