Charliegrey Posted April 4, 2017 Share Posted April 4, 2017 I know the instant answer is 'No' but it's coming up to a year now and I feel like as there was no closure that it might help me to move on. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about my ex, he was my almost perfect man and the best relationship I've ever had, but it ended suddenly and within a couple of months he was engaged to someone else. He had a rough childhood, no close family and suffered with depression. so I can appreciate having a new partner was probably top of his priority - though at the time it was incredibly hurtful for me to accept that he was able to move on so quickly when what we had was so special. I definitely acted irrationally said some mean things and I'm sure that hurt him, he appears pretty happy now and whilst I miss in incredibly i couldn't ever trust him again. I just don't want to go on in my life carrying hate and regret, it's not in my nature to be mean I always feel bad about it and what to put things right. His life has been far harder than mine and as far as I know our relationship was only his second (his first wife cheated throughout their relationship) but I think ours was real and meant something to him. I want him to know that, I don't want him to look back on it and think that I wasn't true. Maybe he already knows that....or maybe I just become another evil character in his life (of which there are many) - it's hard to tell? So what do you think? Do I send a nice letter reaffirming our relationship... or do I just leave it? I have no intention of getting back together, but I would like to think some years down the line we might be able to talk again - im not sure why I want that, I think because I've not let that many people get that close to me and I guess he will always have that special place in my heart and thoughts, regardless of how life pans out. I doubt he'll reply, but at least he will know that. Link to comment
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