skylermayy Posted March 31, 2017 Share Posted March 31, 2017 My boyfriend and I have had a very rocky relationship from the beginning. I know - that's not a good sign. We have been together about 1.5yrs. When we started dating he had extreme jealousy/insecurity problems and took it out on me. He was cheated on very badly (twice) in past relationship. He was very suspicious, worrisome, and untrustworthy. I told him I had enough and he actually cut the behavior. I don't feel like getting too much into detail, but I feel that he is very negative, unsecured, and can be controlling at times. There are also tons of great qualities about him. I broke up with him and he is BEGGING me for another chance. He is seeing a counselor, getting back into church/prayer, working out again, and trying to be happier. He even had a long conversation with his mom about his feelings - something he has never done before. He is not good at opening up. I love him dearly, but I have been left feeling unhappy in this relationship. I want him to work on himself, because I know he is a good man. He comes from a good family and we share similar values. Is it worth it to give him another chance? We are taking a break from talking for about 50 days. Then we will discuss what we are doing in the future. We are long distance right now, but i was moving back to the city he lives in. So I decided when I move home (50 days) we can talk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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