Ery1988 Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 So me and my boyfriend had a huge argument... it started on a Monday with small bickering and ended up on Saturday having a huge blow up...I said horrible things. he then responded saying he was better off alone, and told me to leave him alone. on sunday I apologised.... and again he told me to leave him alone after quite a few open hearted txt msgs. today I have not contacted him... he is online ... when is it ok to try and reach out to him? I know he is very upset with me Link to comment
Betterwithout Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 he told me to leave him alone. on sunday I apologised.... and again he told me to leave him alone ... when is it ok to try and reach out to him? When HE calls you. Leave him alone. He has asked you more than once! Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 Lay back and let things calm down. No more texts. Don't get clingy or obsequious or desperate with repeated apology texts. Just let the dust settle. Wait until he contacts you. after quite a few open hearted txt msgs. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 He asked you more than once to leave him alone. Do that. Link to comment
vesper Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 Please do not contact him until you feel that he has let of steam and is ready to have open and honest communication again. Link to comment
hyden Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 Please do not contact him until you feel that he has let of steam and is ready to have open and honest communication again. No, do not contact him. It is not your place to determine when he 'has let of steam and is ready to have open and honest communication'. He will likely contact you when he is ready. If he does not, then you move on and learn from the experience. What were you arguing about? Link to comment
Ery1988 Posted March 6, 2017 Author Share Posted March 6, 2017 He's just changed his whatsapp picture I'm panickin Link to comment
Ery1988 Posted March 6, 2017 Author Share Posted March 6, 2017 To a picture of a girls wedding who's sister he has been txting before !!! Don't u think it's provoking? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 No. You should ignore him. Stop panicking and trying to decipher everything. Relax.To a picture of a girls wedding who's sister he has been txting before !!! Don't u think it's provoking? Link to comment
holistic17 Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 Listen to the replies you're getting! You're over reacting and it's all based on fear and panic. Get a hold of yourself woman. I'm telling you this because I did it several times in the past and lost every single man I chased. Men hate needy behaviour. Leave him alone and give him a chance to miss you. You said awful things and he's obviously hurting. Respecting him is the mature decision here. Link to comment
Dahl Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 He asked you to leave him alone. Leave him alone. Don't creep on his social media and rack up more things to be indignant about. Respect his wishes for space by actually giving him space. If or when he does contact you, stick to the issues that you have to discuss and be honest and sincere. Stop your stalking and don't beat him over the poor head with what you believe he may or may not have done, thought, intended while you were supposed to be giving him breathing room. Link to comment
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