Lotusavx Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 If you have read my other threads, this guy asked me to be his girlfriend after the second date, so we have been in a relationship (although I wouldn't count this as one) for about 3 weeks. Anyways, the past week he kept cancelling/changing plans and acting distant and it just got really annoying. I asked him if he was interested and he told me he was. He told me that he was "worried I wasn't interested and was really busy with work and health problems" so that's why he couldn't hangout much. We had plans last night and again, he broke them, but called me and promised me that because he had a completely free day today, we would have the whole day together to make up for all the missed hangouts/dates and he seemed pretty reassuring and excited about our day together. He told me to text him when I wake up and we will get together. I texted him this morning, asked what time we would be getting together, and he told me he wouldn't be able to get together until "much later"... I don't know if I was too harsh - but I told him I was done, that it seems like you don't want to see me and I asked him why he wanted to be in a relationship if he is so busy. I told him I am done waiting around for him to keep changing plans. I was so frustrated and it has happened far too much. He swears he liked me and was interested but didn't show it at all. He didn't respond until much later with the busy excuse again and that he was sorry. He didn't seem to care that I ended it, because he didn't try to change my mind or anything. I just stopped texting him and deleted his number. What is bothering me is that I'll never know exactly what his motives were, if he was stringing me along and playing me, wanting a "relationship" but not put in the effort, or was really actually busy. I am kind of disappointed but I was tired of waiting on him only to have plans cancelled, but I know I deserve someone who wants to see me as much as I want to see them. Link to comment
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