Willowandme Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months, There is an age gap, me being 30 and him being 24. The relationship has been intense and passionate from the beginning with him telling me how much he's in love with me and sees a future etc. We live 3 hours from each other but made time for each other whenever we could. I have recently started a business with one of my male friends, when I last saw my boyfriend I told him that me and my business partner would be in the area where he lives but as I would be there for business it would not be appropriate for me to see him, he said that he was uncomfortable with me and my business partner going on business trips and feels that he has a thing for me, he then asked me to unlock my phone as he wanted to read the messages with my and my business partner, I refused and explained that he needs to trust in what I am saying to him and that nothing is going on, he was very persistent and became angry when I said no, after a while he calmed down and did not mention it again, looking back I am not sure if not giving in was the right thing to do as it would of put his mind at rest but I felt that if I did give in it would set a tone for him to feel he could go through my phone and I want him to trust me. When it came to us saying goodbye I reminded him I was on business next week, with that he got up, put his shoes on and walked out, I tried calling and texting and did not get a response for the rest of the day. The next day he messaged me to say he did not trust me and could not be with me anymore, I was heartbroken and pleaded with him but he ignored me. He messaged the next day asking how I was, I said I was not good an that I loved him, he told me to "check myself" I ignored this and told him I missed he, he responded with I hope so. Today he has messaged to say he hates me, he does not trust me and not to message him, when I told him it's all in his head an that I loved only him, he just said what's done is done. What is going on? He is very stubborn and jealous which I knew from the start. I will not call or message him as I refuse to look needy, I have told him I will not beg and I have said everything I have to say, but I do not want it to be over. Do you think he just needs space and time to realise he has made a mistake or it is probably over Link to comment
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