rohitmum Posted February 6, 2017 Share Posted February 6, 2017 Dear Frndz, Kindly help me in making my mind clear which is at present too clumsy. Short Intro - Me and my girlfriend are in relationship for the past 2 years (almost). We started as good colleagues, friends, and then fell into relationship within 2 months (a quick time though) and we had good relationship going on. Since her dad is against my wish of marrying her , he has stopped her from working and she was almost house arrested, but still had the previlage to come out with me once a month for a whole day. We enjoyed/gone through this monthly once meeting and daily night late chats and calls for almost a year. Then she joined a company since her parents wanted her to go to job, thinking that we are not in touch and she joined a new company. In fact the role that she joined was referred by my collage mate; the position of his has been taken over by her and he left to a different company. Soon after she joined the new company which is in a tech park, she started shoing difference in her behaviour and dressing, appearance. Her frequent contact with me from 3 to 4 hours phone call for a day to 5 mins talk per day within 2 months and when I started asking she said that her task is too hectic and that she is finding time to manage. Soon after that I asked my friend to check if she is having any troubles over there but he came with an interesting answer. She is very close to a guy and they roam arnd the campus during break time together (but he is 1 yr younger to her) I asked her directly instead of spying but she fought with me and told to break the relation as I am doubting her. I pleaded her to the core and begged her that I will not be doubting her again, but she abruptly blocked me everywhere. I was unable to contact her further more and almost alone for a month. All of a sudden I got a call from her and said she is missing me and she wanted to patch up with me again. I was so glad and without any second thought, we got reunited. But she was not my same old gal. She was again had very less conversation even though she was online in watsapp till 12,1 AM apprx everyday. I seriously started doubting her and then with the help of few evidences, I just gave fluke try saying that I hacked her conversation with that guy what and all she had and scolded her, how can you ditch me even after we got united and also blackmailed that I would circulate the conversation to your entire office with the help of my friend. She got frightened and said Please dont do. I accept my mistake. I lost my mind when we broke Up. I luv u so much bla bla bla... I was still not able to hate her though angry on her and told her very clearly that she has either resign the job or she has to completely stop talking to that guy. She said "No I cannot, coz he is my trainer and we are too good friends. We just lost track in last few days and he was with me during my bad times when you were fighting with me". I told her that I cannot continue with her anymore with this kind of her behavior. But she promised me that she will never have any such kinda conversation with him again and that she loves me a lot and cannot live without me. I also saw her and that guy staying online till 1 AM twice which I asked and she said it is jus a friendly convo. Kindly advice as what should I do and I am in dilemma if I am seriously mistaking her or is she cheating on me. What is her intention? She could have moved away even after I said we can break up. I am not that good looking though but earning a decent salary to lead a better life. Truly speaking I love her to the core and she does the same coz I know her the way she was when she was very true to me. I guess only this office environment has spoiled her mood. PS - She had two relationship prior to me which she knows am aware of. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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