mm222 Posted January 19, 2017 Share Posted January 19, 2017 I have been with her for 4 years. Her child is just over 4 years old. I met her child when he was an infant. The biological father is not in the picture in any way, shape or form. I have no idea who he is. I have raised her child with her since he was 8 weeks old. I realize this isn't "normal" but do I have the right to know? If not, which honestly I don't want to know because it would just drive me crazy. However, he does not call me dad, because she didnt want him to. Not because "he has a dad" or anything like that. I dont exactly know what it is. Maybe fear that we won't last. Regardless, I treat this child like he is my own flesh and blood and love him more than anything. If I dont have the right to know, which I probably don't because it was before me and knowing would do no good, shouldn't she have the decency to let me have the title that I have earned over the last 4 years. Please be courteous with your responses. I am an adult and respect and appreciate everyone's input. Thank you. Link to comment
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