sourhearts Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 Quick back story; bf of 3 years (I'm 28, he's 30. We're adults. At least I am.), we broke up Dec. 30, 2016. I've been NC for 11 days. He's an alcoholic, things went south when he was caught reapeatdly skyping, whatsapping girls. Esp. one girl in particular. He's been talking to her on and off for the past year. She's now in the states studying and they met up a day after we broke up. I confronted him about it. How she went from being a fly in my soup to them actually meeting up. Everything blowing up in my face. I never expected that. Since then I have been NC. He just called me 30 min ago. I did not answer. He proceeded to send me this text: "I didn't think you would answer, and I don't blame you. I probably wouldn't either if I were you. Anyway i just wanted to say hi, and tell you that I've been thinking about you. In fact, I never stopped thinking about you. I hope everything is going good for you, hope your boss is treating you alright, and just, in general. I dunno. Hope you're doing good. Just wanted to say hi that's all." ...and my gut is telling me NOT TO respond. Am I right?? He hasn't been good to me too many lies, drunken anger towards me. Etc. I just needed to share here. I don't want to sicken my BFF with every issue. Link to comment
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