Andrew626 Posted December 12, 2016 Author Share Posted December 12, 2016 I don't think he realizes that... If she can cheat on me and her last boyfriend and live with it eventually she will do the same to him. Right? Anyways day 11. Still feeling pain but I'm thinking with my head now instead of my emotional heart. I keep thinking I'm glad she showed her true colors now instead of later on. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 13, 2016 Author Share Posted December 13, 2016 Night of day 11 NC and she texted me "hey" I will ignore it and keep going with No contact. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 13, 2016 Author Share Posted December 13, 2016 Day 12 and she texts me this morning saying "never mind" with a crying emoji. Still going strong on IGNORING her. Feels kinda good. Link to comment
Loralora Posted December 13, 2016 Share Posted December 13, 2016 Ignore her...if you accept her again she might do the same thing to you over and over again. She thought the grass was greener on the other side...she found out it isn't...now your grass seems green. If she getts to see your grass again, she might see other grasses in the future again. Or she is just playing mind games. There will always be a better, greener grass...the problem is her and her lack of ability to decide about what she wants. She is immature and doesn't know what she wants. She needs to grow up. Let her grow on her own...not at your expence anymore.. Some people never change or grow up. Link to comment
membername Posted December 13, 2016 Share Posted December 13, 2016 Day 12 and she texts me this morning saying "never mind" with a crying emoji. Still going strong on IGNORING her. Feels kinda good. Great on you for not replying - keep it up! I would suggest outright blocking her and leaving her there. I speak from taking way to long to block my ex and really should have heeded advice and blocked him. She is very immature. Maybe the grass isn't as green as she would have hoped. Also it will keep her out of your mind space whether good or bad thoughts. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 13, 2016 Author Share Posted December 13, 2016 Not sure how to block a phone number lol and I think she thought I would stay a part of her life no matter what she did. She's wrong. Day 12 of NC and I'm slowly getting better. Link to comment
membername Posted December 13, 2016 Share Posted December 13, 2016 Not sure how to block a phone number lol and I think she thought I would stay a part of her life no matter what she did. She's wrong. Day 12 of NC and I'm slowly getting better. Yep, you'll really see them for how they are from here on out. Depends on the phone you have. It's easy on iPhone settings/phone/blocking. Google how to block a number. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 13, 2016 Author Share Posted December 13, 2016 Ok I blocked it. And getting those texts was an ego boost tbh haha Link to comment
membername Posted December 13, 2016 Share Posted December 13, 2016 Ok I blocked it. And getting those texts was an ego boost tbh haha They are. But best to avoid temptation. Never know she may text some crap to urge you to respond.. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 14, 2016 Author Share Posted December 14, 2016 I wouldn't respond to anything no matter what haha Link to comment
luisannalui Posted December 14, 2016 Share Posted December 14, 2016 wow, your story is just wow. Hang in there and stay positive Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 14, 2016 Author Share Posted December 14, 2016 Day 13...still trying to get where I wanna be...healed and indifferent. Getting a little better. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 15, 2016 Author Share Posted December 15, 2016 Day 14. Also the coldest day of the year today in Wisconsin...trying to stay occupied indoors and not feel sad Link to comment
luisannalui Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 Your lucky to stay indoor! I have to go to work and is really cold in NY! Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 15, 2016 Author Share Posted December 15, 2016 Haha I'll be getting a lot of cleaning done today. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 15, 2016 Author Share Posted December 15, 2016 Day 14. She just called me. I didn't answer. And she sends a text "please answer me". I will keep ignoring. I thought I blocked her calls but it didn't work apparently. Link to comment
membername Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 Good job Andrew! Keep it up! Link to comment
katara42 Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 Day 14. She just called me. I didn't answer. And she sends a text "please answer me". I will keep ignoring. I thought I blocked her calls but it didn't work apparently. God you're strong, keep it up you're inspiring me! Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 16, 2016 Author Share Posted December 16, 2016 Thank you and I'm glad I can help people. That's why I update this everyday Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 16, 2016 Author Share Posted December 16, 2016 Day 15. The thought of her makes me sick. She thinks she can just break my heart and lie and cheat and I'll still be her doormat. Hell no! I'm gonna keep ignoring her. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 17, 2016 Author Share Posted December 17, 2016 Day 16. Went out drinking last night haha but I'm hungover today. I don't think of her constantly anymore. Link to comment
membername Posted December 17, 2016 Share Posted December 17, 2016 You're doing great Andrew! Hope your hangover clears Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 18, 2016 Author Share Posted December 18, 2016 Day 17. Packers play today. I spent last night hanging with friends. I've had some sad feelings but for the most part I'm holding steady. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted December 19, 2016 Author Share Posted December 19, 2016 Day 18. I try not to lay around because it's just me and my thoughts. If I find myself thinking about her at all I'll start doing productive things to get my mind off of it. Like cleaning or organizing things. Also going to work. Whenever I can I spend time with friends and/or family. I won't break no contact no matter what. It's not easy but I'm doing the best I can to heal. Link to comment
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