90 Days No Contact Log

[Shadowbite]

Don't give in.

It might kill you to know what it is they want to say. But do not do it.

 

Also, in a way, it looks like Your worth seems to be sky rocketing since they keep bugging you. Although it may be bothering you, it looks like you've gained their respect..

Imagine if you didn't go NC, think they would be all over you trying to contact? Let them squirm. The bed was made, let them feel the consequences.

Don't dwell on what happened, but don't forget either.

 

Take it as you are a good guy, they 'WANT' you back. Use that as a motivator to keep rocking on.

You're the Big fish that's getting away. They're throwing bait at you! Stay strong don't fall for it. Now use this time to better yourself. Become the legend of the lake, a better you.

[Andrew626]

Don't give in.

It might kill you to know what it is they want to say. But do not do it.

 

Also, in a way, it looks like Your worth seems to be sky rocketing since they keep bugging you. Although it may be bothering you, it looks like you've gained their respect..

Imagine if you didn't go NC, think they would be all over you trying to contact? Let them squirm. The bed was made, let them feel the consequences.

Don't dwell on what happened, but don't forget either.

 

Take it as you are a good guy, they 'WANT' you back. Use that as a motivator to keep rocking on.

You're the Big fish that's getting away. They're throwing bait at you! Stay strong don't fall for it. Now use this time to better yourself. Become the legend of the lake, a better you.

I'm working on my life and becoming a better me. New clothes, new haircut, spending time with friends, working hard..I really appreciate your help!

[membername]

How long was your relationship? What happened?

 

I came out of a 2 yr relationship... which was toxic for me.

 

Some of it is here:

 

 

[rosecolored108]

Definitely ignore the sister. Talking to her is just going to link you back to your ex.

 

Live your own life. When your ex and her sister see you standing on your own, you will gain a newfound respect. A lot of people engage in petty conversations after a break-up; don't get involved in that.

 

It seems like you are doing really well.

 

I am on Day 8 of no contact myself, and we all have our struggles, but I have noticed, I am getting better with time.

[Andrew626]

Definitely ignore the sister. Talking to her is just going to link you back to your ex.

 

Live your own life. When your ex and her sister see you standing on your own, you will gain a newfound respect. A lot of people engage in petty conversations after a break-up; don't get involved in that.

 

It seems like you are doing really well.

 

I am on Day 8 of no contact myself, and we all have our struggles, but I have noticed, I am getting better with time.

I'm confused. If she said that "he treats me better" even though I treated her like a princess. Why is she contacting me if he's "better"?

[katara42]

I'm confused. If she said that "he treats me better" even though I treated her like a princess. Why is she contacting me if he's "better"?

I'd be confused too. I hope it isn't driving you away from NC

[membername]

I'd be confused too. I hope it isn't driving you away from NC

 

Andrew will be strong

[Andrew626]

Andrew will be strong

Yes. I will!

[Andrew626]

Just blocked her sister on Facebook.

[Shadowbite]

Just blocked her sister on Facebook.

 

Interesting. Wonder what their next move will be to try to speak to you. Don't think it'll stop here.

They are blocked from your phone currently, right?

Maybe a call from an unknown number?

[Andrew626]

Interesting. Wonder what their next move will be to try to speak to you. Don't think it'll stop here.

They are blocked from your phone currently, right?

Maybe a call from an unknown number?

Yeah I kinda think that's that. I won't be hearing from them again

[Ninevision]

The problem is you treated her like a princess.

 

I sometimes have the same damn problem but what her sister is doing is in direct relation to your ex.

 

They are just trying to keep you around as a back up. Not only your ex had the other guy answer the phone they do not respect you enough and is trying to keep you around. Don't fall into the trap. I broke my nc today and I feel horrible about it even though I got a response from her.

 

I was on day 20.

[membername]

The problem is you treated her like a princess.

 

I sometimes have the same damn problem but what her sister is doing is in direct relation to your ex.

 

They are just trying to keep you around as a back up. Not only your ex had the other guy answer the phone they do not respect you enough and is trying to keep you around. Don't fall into the trap. I broke my nc today and I feel horrible about it even though I got a response from her.

 

I was on day 20.

 

Don't feel bad Ninevision, we all fall sometimes. Just pick yourself up and resume NC and push forward.

[rosecolored108]

Andrew, they are definitely trying to get a rise out of you. I am sure your ex knows you had some feelings invested, and she is exploiting that, along with the sister.

 

They will probably continue to try to contact, especially if you are ignoring and moving past this. Keep strong and stay out of it. She broke up with you. You are doing great!

[rosecolored108]

Sorry to hear Ninevision. I failed at no contact many, many times because my ex would continue to contact, and I would give in; eventually, the cycle can be broken. We all have our ups and downs.

 

I am now at Day 9 going strong!!

[Andrew626]

Day 22. I don't think I'll be hearing from her anymore...I could be wrong but I guess it doesn't matter either way lol.

[membername]

Day 22. I don't think I'll be hearing from her anymore...I could be wrong but I guess it doesn't matter either way lol.

 

NC Fire Burning strong lol

 

True, way I see it. anyone that will do that to someone they claim they love....doesn't know the meaning or what it is to love someone. They're immature.

[rosecolored108]

Agree with membername. It is definite sign of immaturity to behave this way.

[Andrew626]

NC Fire Burning strong lol

 

True, way I see it. anyone that will do that to someone they claim they love....doesn't know the meaning or what it is to love someone. They're immature.

Gotta keep the fire burning haha

[membername]

Lol just toss a log on and keep it goin!

[Andrew626]

Day 22. Went to the mall with friends but it bought up memories of my ex and I made me sad

[rosecolored108]

A lot of things will probably remind you of your ex. Stay strong! Do you have any new activities that you can focus on?

[Andrew626]

A lot of things will probably remind you of your ex. Stay strong! Do you have any new activities that you can focus on?

Not really at the moment. Today is day 23. I'm gonna keep going and stay strong

[rosecolored108]

I would suggest picking up a new hobby or doing something new that you never did with your ex. It will mix up the routine and make your life feel fresh and new. Stay strong!!

[Andrew626]

I would suggest picking up a new hobby or doing something new that you never did with your ex. It will mix up the routine and make your life feel fresh and new. Stay strong!!

I will do that thank you