So i didnt tell my gf about my female co-worker

[pandaofspdez]

so i didnt tell my gf about my female co-worker. And i went to drop off something to my female co-worker. with my gf with me. thinking nothing of it. and then she gets mad at me for not telling her. am i wrong ? like the co-worker and i arent doing anything.

[boltnrun]

If you're not doing anything, why did you hide her from your girlfriend?

[j.man]

What were you dropping off? Was it to your co-workers house or to work? It doesn't even sound like you were even hiding her. You're not under any obligation to divulge all your dealings with a member of the opposite sex, but again, a lot of this is dependent on the context.

[Mr_LFA]

Unless you were dropping off a piece of your co-worker's undergarment, then I wouldn't stress about it. Your gf sounds very insecure.

[nuttybuddy]

why should your gf get mad at you? this doesn't make sense. she's mad at you just because you were dropping off something to a FEMALE co-worker? what's wrong with your gf? is the co-worker beautiful or something? is your gf fat and ugly? is she jealous that you might cheat? what is her problem?

[notalady]

What were you supposed to be telling your gf about your female co-worker? Are you friends also? Because it seems weird. We can't be expected to be telling our partner about every co-worker, male or female.

 

What were you dropping off? At home or work?

[agent1607307371]

I think it's generally understood that most workplaces don't segregate by gender.

 

Has something happened with a female co-worker?

[catfeeder]

I don't understand what you were supposed to have told GF, maybe that you were taking her to drop something off?

 

I don't get it.

[DoF]

Knowing where she lives and going to her house = triggers.

 

I'm sure your girlfriend assumes you work with females...

 

Put herself in her shoes. How would you feel if your girl dropped off something at her male co workers house?

[Doc Blaze]

"I been wanting her to be my girlfriend for the longest time. but she says shes not ready for a relationship"

 

 

did you guys become a couple in the past 3 days?

[pandaofspdez]

If you're not doing anything, why did you hide her from your girlfriend?

 

i was afriad to tell her, because either way, I knew she would blow up on me. damned if i do, damned if i dont. I brought my gf along because i didnt think anything of it. maybe she wouldnt either but i was wrong

[pandaofspdez]

my co worker, gave me money to get her a charger for her phone, being the nice guy that i am. i did it. and i dropped it off at my job. But my gf was with me. and After I dropped it off. she got real snappy with me she was like " shes cute, how come you didnt tell me about her?" "do you like her?" " you have a thing for her?" " are you guys ing?"

 

To me that was a little too much it was a little overwhelming for me to handle.

[pandaofspdez]

why should your gf get mad at you? this doesn't make sense. she's mad at you just because you were dropping off something to a FEMALE co-worker? what's wrong with your gf? is the co-worker beautiful or something? is your gf fat and ugly? is she jealous that you might cheat? what is her problem?

 

I guess she got mad over the fact that i didnt tell her, and yeah my co-worker is attractive, but im NOT attractive to her.

[nuttybuddy]

I guess she got mad over the fact that i didnt tell her, and yeah my co-worker is attractive, but im NOT attractive to her.

 

so did you reassure your gf that your coworker does not find you attractive? that should have turned her mood around in your gf to "how dare she not find my bf attractive?" type of attitude. but anyway, i just don't like how your gf is instigating trouble when there is no trouble at all. in other words, she sounds like a drama queen. you could tell her that you're getting tired of the drama she tries to build up. maybe that might kick some sense into her. if she doesn't take a moment to reflect your words (whether right away or alone by herself) you could tell her that you're fed up with her drama queen attitude and that you're thinking of moving on if she doesn't cut it out. and if she makes a big stink about it, you should really think of it as cutting your losses and move on. living with a drama queen helps no one, not even her. she needs to grow up. i know, cuz i happened to be one. but after my bf dumped me, i realized how dramatic i had been and all of the things i shouldn't have done. i realized how i should and could've been more loving. but it was all too late. and i still regret i wasn't a better person to him back then. but i moved on and he did too. i think we were just a toxic combination. but at least i learned more about myself through it. hopefully, your gf will learn her lesson before it's too late.