Madman1373 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 I had a recently rough breakup and I had just been able to pull myself together and not let it bother me about a few weeks ago. I'm happy and things are going good but just a few days ago my ex started talking to me again and my grip on my will is weakening. I feel like I'm slipping back into the want to chase her and get her back. Her talking to me makes remember how much I still feel for her and how badly I want to get her back. Does anyone know what to do or have any advice? Link to comment
dion333 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 I had a recently rough breakup and I had just been able to pull myself together and not let it bother me about a few weeks ago. I'm happy and things are going good but just a few days ago my ex started talking to me again and my grip on my will is weakening. I feel like I'm slipping back into the want to chase her and get her back. Her talking to me makes remember how much I still feel for her and how badly I want to get her back. Does anyone know what to do or have any advice? Maybe you have to go NC for a very long time? It will be hard, but it can help you heal faster Link to comment
Hls923 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 No Contact -- hard as hell, and it sucks...... Only thing that'll work, though. Link to comment
kbbcoop77 Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 She misses the friendship. For the one who wants more this scenario is just too painful. There's nothing wrong with severing all ties with her to take the necessary time to heal. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 I agree with no contact. Link to comment
Madman1373 Posted January 13, 2016 Author Share Posted January 13, 2016 Kinda hard to do that when our musical professions are tied together. Link to comment
Krankor Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 If your ex was the one who broke up with you, then I would agree with the nc. If that's impossible due to your professions then just have as little contact with her as possible and keep it strictly professional. She likely just misses the friendship and wants to talk but doesn't want the relationship back. If it was you who broke it off however, then I would think long and hard about why you broke it off and figure out if it's something you can work through. If so, then go ahead and try to win her back. If not, then my original advice still stands. Nip this in the bud now and redirect your energy and focus before this snowballs. Link to comment
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