Can you please help me get my ex back?

[ParisPaulette]

Which is why I've been asking how to convey to him that there's no pressure and I'll love him just as he is

 

Um, tell him that?

 

It's all I can think of. Otherwise, I got nothing. No one else does either apparently according to your arguments. Drops mic, walks off the stage.

[Blue_Skirt]

Zebra, look this guy does not love, he is not into you, he is selfish. I don’t know what he is, but I have read nothing positive about him. You deserve someone better.

[mhowe]

Take a vow of silence.

[zebra10]

He just needs more time than most people. He is slower moving - can't imagine saying "I love you" or mentioning future , or discussing moving in together , at 14 months. Now I try to tell him I just need him and promise to stop caring about marriage bc I've changed. But he just says "I warned you if you kept bringing up the future I'd dump you. I'm past the point of no return. I'm not going back" but a month later he stayed on phone 1.5 hours on a Friday night. And in past I could always get him back eventually after enough crying. So please help me figure this out

[mhowe]

No. Its like helping someone hang themselves. Morally repugnant.

[Blue_Skirt]

I got it, he is a slow moving turtle, you are a zebra. Turtles and zebras are not compatible.

[kbbcoop77]

6 pages and not a dent. You've got all the advice and Internet therapy available here and now you're just rehashing the same questions. Severally dense denial or troll. Time to move on and let this tread slither down the page

[Capricorn3]

Thread has run its course.