Miffycat14 Posted October 2, 2015 Share Posted October 2, 2015 I'm feeling weak right now! The temptation to ruin my 8 days work on NC is kicking in! Link to comment
boltnrun Posted October 2, 2015 Share Posted October 2, 2015 Call a friend, sister or cousin and talk to them instead. Ask them to talk you out of contacting him. Link to comment
TMifune Posted October 2, 2015 Share Posted October 2, 2015 Shout into a pillow.... pet a kitten.... Go to this thread and write whatever you wanted to write instead of sending it: And if it helps you can call me names.....that seems to make people feel better sometimes ;-) Link to comment
Miffycat14 Posted October 2, 2015 Author Share Posted October 2, 2015 I just violently mopped a floor and feel a little less tempted haha. What a bloody nightmare this break up business can be.. Link to comment
Astrogirl Posted October 2, 2015 Share Posted October 2, 2015 Please don't break no contact - at least not for now. I'm six weeks into mine (42 days today). It hurts but think of yourself. You never know how the other person will react and that is the temptation, but it may not be the reaction you want if you're keen to find out. Keep reminding yourself what a wonderful person you are. Concentrate on what you'd like to do. Even thinking of it helps even if you can't afford. Talk to people you trust. Keep posting on here, but don't break no contact. Link to comment
TMifune Posted October 2, 2015 Share Posted October 2, 2015 I just violently mopped a floor and feel a little less tempted haha. What a bloody nightmare this break up business can be.. Well, if you're going to do things "violently" I'd have to react the advice about petting a kitten! ;-) Link to comment
DoF Posted October 2, 2015 Share Posted October 2, 2015 Chop some firewood! That should take some anger out hehe Link to comment
SooSad33 Posted October 2, 2015 Share Posted October 2, 2015 You've done 8 days... just over a week. Keep your mind as busy as possible. Divert yourself away from that phone, when the urge hits. Just keep reminding yourself of the possible Negative outcome, should you do it.. Listen to music.. watch tv.. go for a walk..bake.. write.. etc. Anything else but contact! One day at a time.... this will ease off more as each day passes.. give it time. Link to comment
Dottieflanogon Posted October 3, 2015 Share Posted October 3, 2015 You already know this but you"ll be taking a big step backwards if you do.It's only been 8 days,give it time.Right now your emotions may get the best of you, you can't allow that. Link to comment
Movingforward3 Posted October 3, 2015 Share Posted October 3, 2015 Do the best you can. Even indirect contact hurts. Puts your progress back. Link to comment
rngrl12 Posted October 3, 2015 Share Posted October 3, 2015 As someone who broke NC don't do it! It just made me feel worse and set me back and I very quickly wished that I had stuck to NC. Take it from someone who has been there. Don't break it. Go to bed early. Go for a run. Do anything else. Link to comment
ambreaux405 Posted October 3, 2015 Share Posted October 3, 2015 Whenever I am tempted to contact him, I write down exactly the possibilities of how the conversation could go. By the time I have written down all the different possible outcomes, I'm usually not wanting to contact him. Cos really, none of the outcomes are actually good! Link to comment
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