Very busy woman that I am highly into.

[dld123]

Hi guys,

 

I'm just looking for some helpful advice/tips on a situation:

 

there's this girl I went to middle school with that I reconnected with earlier this year on Facebook. We exchanged numbers and texted back and forth for a while. We went out for coffee and a nice little walk a few months back and it was a great time. We continue to keep in touch, but it's so hard keeping a convo/talking with her. The thing is that she is a doctor and she had an extremely busy life. I stopped texting her for a while cause I felt like I was being kind of a bug/annoying with so persistently texting. I texted her for the first time in maybe 3 weeks the other day and she responded with " hey I miss you and we should get some coffee/dessert soon".

 

point is that I'm really really into this woman and have been for a long time. and I'm looking for a proper way to let her know that I'm into her and that I would love to hear from her more and most def spend some time with her and such . I would also like to find out how she might feel about me as well. I feel like I've been waiting forever and just want to know if I should stick around and try or move on.

 

thanks for reading!

[missmarple]

Her response to your text is encouraging. Ask her out on a proper date.

[lerenard]

You already know each other, and you already had a good time together. Just ask her out! Ask her when she has a free evening because you would like to take her on a date, or something casual like this. Call it "coffee and dessert" if you like it better)

[chai714]

Nobody is too busy for a relationship or dating. Even a Dr.

 

We make time for things that we value. Take her up on coffee date and make a move (kiss), if her body language is positive during the date. If she turns the kiss down, keep hunting.

[dld123]

Thank you for the input everyone. I will try and make a date with her but I just know it's going to be hard. She is hard to talk to so I know planning something is going to be worse. I sent her a text last night just trying to start a convo but I received no reply. She is like that and i would def like to think it's cause shes busy but very hit or miss somethings I get no reply and sometimes i get a lot out of her.

 

Idk how long I should wait between texting her because as I have said before, the one thing I hate most is being persistent and possibly being a BUG in her eyes. Is there any way that I can drive the fact that I'm really into her through a convo? I guess that's a tad bit on the "corny" side, but I just want to find a way of upping my chances on having a better connection with her and talking/hanging out.

[Batya33]

Good luck and definitely try. And watch St. Elmo's Fire -the doctor is played by Andie Macdowell and Emilio Estevez (I think) is crazy about her. ;-)

[mhowe]

I would call her, not text her.

She may not have "time" for text conversations --- or enjoy texting.

[Ms Darcy]

Call her and ask her out!