nexus532 Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 personally i don't like to receive head, it makes me feel uncomfortable to kiss her any time afterward, be it days, months, ect. Link to comment
qt Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 im not very experienced in giving head. i love the taste of my boyfriend, but im quite petitie and so i got a small mouth and my bf isnt small at all, so sometimes feel i cant take it as deep as i would like too. sometimes i get a bit scared about him cuming in my mouth. i would never spit, always swallow, but tlike find it hard to swallow his cum and still have it in my mouth. getting a bit explicit there, lol anyways, yeh i do like giving my bf head cos i love the taste of him in my mouth and i love his reaction-gets me going x Link to comment
JonnyG Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 Well I enjoy oral, and if i like/love a girl I would have no probs going down on her. Its good to give them so much pleasure. As long as neither party smell bad at all i honestly don't know the probs that people have giving oral. Link to comment
defygravity Posted November 22, 2004 Share Posted November 22, 2004 I really enjoy doing it...I don't like the taste of cum though..yuck! I don't really like recieving it though...I'm too self conscious I guess... Link to comment
cutie11052 Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 i love to give head licking the head feeling how hard as a rock his is! yummy Link to comment
Fudgie Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 I love giving oral to my guy. It's one of my favourite acts. I always offer to do it and a little over half the time, he wants me to perform oral, but other times, he's like "no, I want your face up here near mine" (aww) I enjoyed receiving oral in past relationships but I really prefer giving oral best. I like go into a different state of mind doing it, like a meditative state. Honestly, I vaguely remember giving oral but the memory of doing it is fuzzy. It's like my brain is on auto-pilot. And not to brag, but I am quite good. My boyfriend had a BAD (I repeat) BAD experience with his ex-wife and oral. It made him gag and now he's totally wigged out and isn't ready to perform it on me. We may try it in the future but I don't really care. As long as I can do oral on him, I'm good. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 What's with girls and not caring? I would never want to be with a man who is grossed out to go down on me, next. Link to comment
DrKitten Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 What's with girls and not caring? I would never want to be with a man who is grossed out to go down on me, next. Agreed. I have no patience for selfish lovers. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 I love doing it. Other then the actual act of sex, it's probably my favorite thing sexually to do. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 What's with girls and not caring? I would never want to be with a man who is grossed out to go down on me, next. He's not a selfish lover or anything. He pleases me in every other way he just CAN'T go down on me. The only woman he has eaten out was his ex-wife and he only tried it like 2x and gagged. Never did it since. I was the one who had to tell him "Hey you know...vaginas don't smell like fish." Because he assumed they all did from that one bad experience. I've seen him gag from eating something with a bad texture or even brushing his teeth. Trust me..it's not a selfish issue...it's a case of having a bad experience and being too sensitive. That being said, I don't really care. Link to comment
srssatellite Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 Wish my wife thought the same way as most of y'all. She's like sexygirl19's boyfriend, she used to love giving it to me (I've been told that was all a lie, an act, etc. just to keep me happy) and in the past couple of years we've had a lot of fights regarding her unwillingness to pleasure me (and don't think I'm selfish, I'll gladly do whatever she wants). It's basically we have vaginal sex or I masturbate if I want to orgasm. And there's a lot of times she'll tell me that she'll take care of me, give me head, etc. but when the time comes it's "I know I said this, but...*insert something*" Link to comment
SongCoyote Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 I really enjoy oral sex, giving or receiving - the offering and accepting of such an intimate act (that also feels good to me in either direction) is very pleasurable, especially with someone who knows what they are doing and enjoys it (as I do). One of the interesting things (to me) is that giving oral can be from a powerful or a giving perspective (top or bottom, from another perspective). Holding someone down and pulling their pleasure from them with your mouth... or receiving the command to serve them with your skill. Either way it's a joyous experience, and I have had and crafted many orgasms from it. I hope that you (whoever you are, reading this) one day find yourself able to enjoy it from either direction. If not, may you find many other pleasures! Light and laughter, SongCoyote Link to comment
Chalie Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 I don't really like the act itself but I do like seeing my bf enjoying it. Link to comment
Juxtapoz Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 I think the secret to truly enjoying giving head AND for him to fully enjoy it is to imagine you're the one receiving it. Link to comment
DD123 Posted May 6, 2010 Share Posted May 6, 2010 i mean....it isnt THAT bad, but it isnt something i particularly enjoy. i do it anyway though because he loves it Link to comment
babii doll Posted May 6, 2010 Share Posted May 6, 2010 think its interesting that the common response here is "i do it to please him" i guess im in the minority, i love giving head and its not just about pleasing him, it pleases me as well. he never has to ask me, im down there quite often Link to comment
Lady Rashomon Posted May 6, 2010 Share Posted May 6, 2010 think its interesting that the common response here is "i do it to please him" i guess im in the minority, i love giving head and its not just about pleasing him, it pleases me as well. he never has to ask me, im down there quite often I love doing it, but I am sure there's an emotional component here. If I'm turned on by someone, that means I'm emotionally connected to them. Not that I've had many casual relationships, but this is probably not something that I would do with a one-night stand. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted May 6, 2010 Share Posted May 6, 2010 think its interesting that the common response here is "i do it to please him" i guess im in the minority, i love giving head and its not just about pleasing him, it pleases me as well. he never has to ask me, im down there quite often I'm with you babi doll. Yes I do it to please him but it's a HUGE turn on for me. My guy will never have to ask for it because I am always more then willing to do it. Link to comment
boowant Posted May 6, 2010 Share Posted May 6, 2010 I'm curious because I've given my bf oral sex multiple times but I don't really like it..I like the fact that he's enjoying it but the actual act almost makes me gag. Do people actually like doing this, or do they just do it as an expression of love? I do think it is a expression of love, because i love my b/f more than i have w/ my ex's! I love to please him but at the same time it pleases me, like alot of people on here has said he NEVER has to ask i always do it! Love it Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted May 6, 2010 Share Posted May 6, 2010 think its interesting that the common response here is "i do it to please him" i guess im in the minority, i love giving head and its not just about pleasing him, it pleases me as well. he never has to ask me, im down there quite often It's hard to say. I love giving my boyfriend head but if he wasn't enjoying it or that it was mediocre, I sure wouldn't. So, it's not the act itself, it's the feeling I get from giving him pleasure. Link to comment
HotwillyT Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 think its interesting that the common response here is "i do it to please him" i guess im in the minority, i love giving head and its not just about pleasing him, it pleases me as well. he never has to ask me, im down there quite often I realize we are different in our likes and dislikes. There are times when the pendulum swings between giving and receiving oral sex, I am almost always on for 69. Old post I realize, do you have a bf? Link to comment
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